Girls, (I'm asking as a worried virgin) is my bent penis normal?

[candidfrank101]

My penis has always bent to the left when erect, but it's only in the last year and a half or so that I've started to wonder whether it's a serious problem or just way that some men's are naturally shaped. No matter how hard I try to reassure myself that I'm okay, I can't help but wonder about the mechanics of having sex with my wonky equipment (i. e. surely I couldn't possibly have a girl on top? Surely my bent penis won't fit properly into her vagina, casing her to experience pain and discomfort?) In my first week of starting university I met a girl and had my first proper sexual experience. We ended up fooling around in her bed with me in just my underwear and her in her nightwear. She felt my erection pressing into her and reached down to touch it through the fabric of my underwear. Her immediate reaction was to remark, "I'm getting really scared that it's bent!" "It is bent" I replied after a pause. I pulled down my pants so she could see for herself, hoping she would think there was too much wrong with it. "Oh my god, I can't believe you were born with a bent thing!" Was her reaction to seeing it. I was so upset that I immediately lost my erection and we ended up falling asleep without going any further. Since then I haven't seen her and am terrified that she'll tell one her the other girls how bent my penis is (we have a lot of mutual friends and I'm paranoid that they must secretly know). Moreover, whenever I try to speak to any other attractive women I can't stop replaying the memory of that night and the way it seemingly confirmed what I already suspected: that I'm at a considerable disadvantage to other men in the trouser department and that, even if I do manage to seduce other girls and get them into bed, they're going to feel seriously disappointed and unsatisfied by the shape of my equipment and the relationship is unlikely to go anywhere. I'd just like to get someone's honest, objective feedback on the matter so I have a better idea of where I stand.

[peachpitt]

First of all , the vagina expands. That's not an issue. It will
Fit , and it won't hurt her vaginally. She can be on top and she will tell
You if it hurts.

Anal sex may be a different story , depending on how much of a curve you have. I can't say.

I am sorry she reacted that way. That was inappropriate. I would , just to be sure , have a doctor look at you.

I had a friend who had a lump and was embarrassed and died of testicular cancer at age
24. You do not have cancer. I am not trying to scare you , but ignore that girl and go to the doctor. I don't know how much you bend , but go to the doctor. They will know if it is normal
Or not and next time tell the girl she hurt your feelings


So not cool on her part.

[candidfrank101]

Thanks, I really appreciate your feedback. I suppose I've always assumed it's an issue because you hear so much about size and so little about shape; it's therefore difficult to know whether that's because most men have a wonky one (hence why it's never really talked about) or because very few men do (hence it's never heard about). I probably do need to see someone as I lose my erection as soon as I get one now (such is the traumatising power of that one memory). Fucked up, eh?

[peachpitt]

I am so sorry. You really need to talk to her about that , if she is still around. That's not right Everyone is sensitive about their body. Men are more visual than women , in general , so you are going to take it more personally. You don't have to be mean to her. Just say something like your reaction really upset me , and she will probably just apologize on her own. I hope things get better.

[candidfrank101]

Thanks, me too. To be honest, I doubt talking to her would help - I suspect she'd just laugh and tell all her girlfriends about it (assuming she hasn't already). At least there's Viagra, eh? Probably that trip to the doctor is the way to go.

[peachpitt]

Ignore her. You don't want to be with someone like That anyway. Really , she is acting childish.

[Louloubum]

normal. fine. not weird. guys are so worried about the equipment. its rarely an issue.

[dayofthedead220]

it's normal.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, if you are worrying about it go to a docter, sorry can't help

[candidfrank101]

I know I should - the thought of it is just so embarrassing. Thanks for the advice though.

[Opinion Owner]

Is there no one who could go with you?

[candidfrank101]

I've never told anyone else about it; it's just too personal (hence my using the anonymity of the internet). Just worry that people would laugh if they knew.