I’m not allowed to wear a bra?

[Anonymous]

My mom refuses to let me wear a bra, she does not believe in young girls wearing bras. She says I can’t wear one until I am a DD cup. She has written a note to my school excusing me from wearing a bra during gym and if that’s a problem I’m excused from gym. Of course my gym teacher doesn’t find it a problem I DO it hurts as fuck not to wear a bra with what we’re doing. What should I do? Every time I wear one she makes me take it off (or takes it off me) and punishes me, most of the time spanks me. What should I do?

[MORPHEUS_12]

I have a photographic memory and you have asked this question before. I am not sure what answers or attention you are looking to garner from telling us your Mother refuses to allow you to wear a bra. If your true age is represented on this throwaway GAG profile then you are of legal age. You can go buy a bra for yourself. The only conclusion I have is that your Mother is one of those high anxiety nuts. She fears that wearing a bra will increase your chances of getting breast cancer. She's instilling her fears and anxieties on you for no reason.

[Estaroze]

It doesn't matter how old you are. (I've worn it since I was in the elementary school) If your breasts become bigger than A, You must wear bra, In my experience, people who don't wear bras tend to have saggy breasts.

[Asker]

I know I hate saggy breasts and mine are starting. I want to wear a bra so bad.

[Estaroze]

Wth? terrible parents!! You have your own right to decide ur body shape T T So sad...

[Asker]

What can I do

[vald9inches]

thats a myth by the way it makes more sense that wearing a bra makes the connective tissue weaker since you are not using them kind of like muscles. and all breasts get saggy no matter what. and as a Man I LOVE saggy breasts!! they are so natural and beautiful looking!

[Estaroze]

Honey, I know its not scientifically proven but I am sure I've seen enough girls who don't wear bras and gained saggy breasts. I think you have 2 options. Secretly wearing bras. Or Confront your parents and persuade them.

[TonyMetal86]

Where is your father to shut her up, and make you wear bra...

If i had such a wife may god forbid, i'tell her 2 words: you take it off from your girl and i'll break your hands... period

[Gopnik]

hell yeah that's how it's supposed to be, what kind of fucked up pathetic bitch takes her daughter's bra from her? AND WHY?

[TonyMetal86]

@Gopnik agreed...

[Anonymous]

That’s really strange, unless you’re an A cup or smaller you’ll need support especially in gym, just take a sports bra with you and put it on before gym class

[Asker]

I’m a 34 b, I can’t rlly bc she won’t allow any In the house and if she finds any I will be punished, also it will eventually have to be washed. Also I need it for all day and at home.

[Opinion Owner]

Can you talk to your dad about this? Maybe he can talk some sense into her since this is very strange behavior for a mother to be so against that, maybe talk to your guidance counselor or nurse and maybe they can tell her that they won’t allow you in school without it on

[dogbert444]

I'm not allowed to wear one either!

As for you, if you are over 18, exert your rights as an adult and tell your mum to grow up!

[madhatters4]

leave a bra or two in your school locker. when you get to school get it out and go to the bathroom and put it on

[AnonT0]

You’re 18+ go out and buy one, if she tries to take it, smack her over the head with a pan.

[Intraluminal]

Ideally your mother would ku6do the right thing, but is apparently a nut. (sorry).

Tell her that the boys are making comments about your breasts and being able to see your nipples. Hopefully she's be so upset that shell want you to wear a bra.

[CuChullan]

Fuck that. No bra and a spanking if you wear one? If there's a social worker around i'd be having a word. This is a prime example of very bad parenting.

[vald9inches]

get a sports bra and hide it in your backpack! i wish i was in your gym class!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[Asker]

I can’t my parents will see if it’s at home and can’t leave it at school bc it has to be washed eventually, but I also need one all day and at home.

[vald9inches]

why do you want to wear all day? i thought girls hate bras with a passion lol it hurts their shoulders and leaves marks. i can understand during a sport activity but i say free those breasts! lol

[skittles2017]

Discuss it with her. Peacefully and reasonable. Make her understand that it hurts not to wear a bra.
Make her explain it to you and convince you why is better without a bra.
If not, hide a bra on school locker or ask a friend to bring you a bra everyday in school at least. And hide it from her.

[jurgenmeister]

Troll

[NightOwl8801]

Why does she make you not wear one in the first place...
Have a serious discussion about it with her

[jakeofalltrades]

get one for gym or school but take it off before you get home

[TonyWilliams]

Try to convince your mother. Or wait till you're 18

[eagle1951]

how old are you

[Asker]

16 years old

[eagle1951]

not sure what you can do. maybe buy a top that has one already built in.

[LOGESHKUMAR]

Why you are not allowed to wear a bra..

[Anonymous]

who comes up with this stuff? Seriously.

[Asker]

My mim

[Asker]

Mom.

[Opinion Owner]

and your profile says 18-24yo. are you the under 18 guy's girlfriend that has an 8yo daughter going into puberty? ... smh... I've been on here too long tonight. Adios.