I masturbated in front of my boyfriend... DRUNK

Yeah I got real drunk with a friend and went to see my boyfriend who was also a bit drunk and I started to like vigorously kiss him and he carried me to the bedroom and we had some crazy sex. And I was as loud as I wanted to be because none of his roommies were there but the thing is... I have a hard time coming via intercourse... And he was touching me so I'll come but he got some important phone call or whatever so I had to finish on my own so I freaking masturbated drunk, naked, on his bed and them as I was coming, he was off the phone and stared straight at my vag. I didn't think much of it then, but now that I'm sober... I'm like WTF what did I DO! I'm so embarrassed! Would he think that I'm a slut? he's my first boyfriend and never had sex before I met him and it's only been like a month or so since we started having sex. I used to be this "innocent girl" to him and wtffff did I just completely mess that up? How should I react when I see him again? I don't know what to do someone help plz!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • First of all...that's hot, second, I doubt he thinks you're a slut. You were just really into it and so was he, there is nothing wrong with having a high sex drive and showing it with you're partner. It shows that you're not shy and innocent in bed which is hot and doesn't really mean your a slut so don't worry about that.

    Unless the subject is brought up when you see him don't worry about it. And if it is brought up you could act a little embarrassed just to gauge his reaction but I doubt he thinks less of you, if anything it turned him on and he is even more attracted to you know that you have that kind of drive in bed.

  • You should not feel embarrassed. He really liked it, I am sure of it. He will not think that you are a slut. Masturbation in front of your boyfriend, or in private does not make you a slut. You should act the way you normally act.

Most Helpful Girls

  • He probably got turned on by it, you could ask if he liked it or not you could tell him some that would boost him up alil like he was so good that you had to Finnish you could just forget about it I would worry about it my boyfriend is very strange about masturbation he thinks it's only OK if some way we both are involved such as on the phone or in the same room so he might not think bad of you at all but he could be upset that he did make you come that he left you

  • I bet he really liked that. You've already had sex with him, what's so slutty about that? Don't worry about it, just be confident and hold your head up high you did nothing wrong. You have sexual feelings like anyone else and you shared that with your boyfriend. If he did think you were a slut (highly unlikely) then he would be a loser

    • i agree Nothing wrong with that at all

  • You were drunk, people do things out of character when they are.

    You're not a slut. A slut sleeps around with numerous men.

    You were enjoying yourself, and having a great time (never feel guilty for that.)

    He probably thinks what you did was hot (hes crazy if he doesn't!).

    • you think so? that's hot? I mean I guess I'm not as freaked out any more but still its so out of character for me omgg

    • It is hot. His reaction was like that because he was caught off guard. I'm sure he has no complaints.

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  • He probably enjoyed it very much and will probably ask you to do it again soon. No biggie, guys like it.

  • He loved it and sure he will be asking you to do it some more for him.

  • I love to see how someone pleases them self and what they like HOT HOT HOT :)

  • lol These things happen.

    One time a girl started humping my leg cause I was having trouble getting it up. :)

  • he won't think you are a slut, he will think you are freaky or kinky and that's never a bad thing in my book, hell if I was him I'd ask to see it again and possibly join in.

  • SLut? No that's your boyfriend. You shouldn't feel bad about it. You got into it and you loved it and he loved it.

  • Your boyfriend was staring cause that is so hot!

  • Wow. You are awesome. There is nothing wrong with what you did. I would really like that if I was him! :)

  • He stop to phone, it is very bad manners for having sex, so it is very normal when you coming, besides, you have drunk.

  • I'm sorry, all I got was he LEFT YOU IN THE MIDDLE OF SEX TO ANSWER A FUCKING PHONE! Are you kidding me. how could he leave you like that. The house could be burning down but my husband wouldn't stop.

  • Nah, guys like it when girls are monogamously sexual.

  • When you've broken up, 15 years from now, I bet he still thinks of that image when he jerks off sometimes.

  • You didn't do anything wrong. I'm sure he's not bothered by it. You're freaking out over nothing.

    • Enough said