I need help on giving a good bj?

ok so I'm gnna give a bj tonight and he said I just do the same thing every time and it doesn't turn him on anymore. so how can I turn him back on? what can I do? what else can I do wen giving a bj to make it better?
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and if you guys can suggest sum vids to watch on giving a good bj? that would really help meee!
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  • Hey, I'll give you a few tips.

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

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  • How about asking him what he'd like you to do better that you've not done before. You don't need all that vid stuff because as soon as you start trying to be an expert or professional when you give him a bj you're taking your relationship in the wrong direction and that direction has a short ending. Just ask him to guide you rather than his leaving that all up to you to come up with a better way. He has some responsibility too because when doing sexual things with your boyfriend it should be a 50/50 thing. Whenever it leans one way more than the other it starts putting that person in a dominate role and putting the pressure on the other one to perform better. Don't let that happen to you unless you don't care what happens just as long as you learn how to give him the best blow job on earth. I've never known a relationship that was the better because one or both knew how to do all the sexual things just as good as they do in porn. When you get to that stage your relationship is basically over because all you have is a reality porn relationship. So just ask him to guide you and that should be good enough. If he doesn't you have a loser.

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  • lick. lick him up and down like a giant popsicle, and swirl your tongue all around the tip before going down. try deepthroating if you can, or switching back and forth between sucking and jerking him off. suck/massage his balls. use one hand to massage his balls and the base while your hand is rubbing around his thighs. just have fun =)

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  • check out this article, it has info for both girls and guys, but an especially good blowjob part. the place he gets the blowjob is always sexy as well, you could try mixing it up

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    • Awesome article! Thanks.

  • Let him control your head.

    When you're on your knees tell him you're going to keep your hands behind your back and let him hold your head while he basically mouth f*ks you!

    Be sure to look him in the eyes adoringly while he's doing this.

    Keep your lips wrapped around your teeth to prevent scraping (you may look silly but it feels great)

    You can tell him to go FASTER or DEEPER.

    It can get very furious (and FUN)!

    When he's ready to come tilt your head waay back, open your mouth wide and stick out your tongue.

    If you did everything right you should get a massive sticky reward.

    Guys love to see come all over their girl's face, hair, eyes, up nose, forehead, dripping off chin, strings hanging from her face etc.

    Do this and you'll be a rock star.