I'm pregnant with my best friend's baby!

I'm 17 about to be 18 in January my best friend turned 18 in June we have been best friends since we were 5 We were hanging out in his room like we always do we some how ended up making out and well we went to far after that night we never spoke of it again and we just went back to normal now I'm 7 weeks pregnant with his baby and he has no idea I know it's his baby but should I tell him it's his he's knows I'm prego he's been really sweet he even holds my hair when I get sick witch is a lot but how am I going to tell him it's his I'm scared he threatened to kill the father wait till I tell him he's the father if I ever do should I tell him or not
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If you were him would you want to know?
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Well I finally told him he said he needed some time to think so I gave him that then we say down with our parents and decided we wanted too keep the baby and that we could care for the baby and support it and ourselfs we will hopefully be moved in my parents rental place soon thank to all who answered I really don't know if I would have told him if not for some of yalls comments so thanks
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Most Helpful Girls

  • First of all you should tell him. If he is your best friend he will stay by your side. Second of all don't have an abortion. Babies at 12 weeks have fingers and toes and the have a heartbeat. You never know what your baby could become. Babies are living even tho they need your help to live. And if your friend is helping you that's a good sign. And last if you talk it over with your friend and Yall both know y'all don't want the baby. Give it up there are a lot of people wanting a baby my uncle was one of them. And he loves his child greatly. And with your friend saying he would kill the father. It may be because he know you have a long road ahead of u. And that he cares about u. True friends always do. But I do wish you the best of luck. And hope your morning sickness goes away soon. :)

    • On update. I am so happy for y'all. Best of luck :)

    • Thank you! :))

  • Tell him the truth, he deserves to know and you'll lose the friendship when he finds out down the road. It'll be easier to discuss it now

  • i would certainly tell him that its his. he seems really sweet, he should understand.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You really should tell him and have a serious discussion about it. He does deserve to know that it's his. Are you considering keeping the baby or has abortion crossed your mind? I'm really sorry, best of luck with it all.

  • I think he has the right to know and you should talk about how sure you are that you want to keep it, if you can give it the care it'll need without destroying your own lives.

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  • you should tell him

    • congratz with your pregnancy and baby :D

    • Thanks!

  • Tell him. He deserves to know the truth. And good luck :)

    • Congratulations :)

    • Thanks!

  • You need to tell him. And get an abortion.

    • Ok, this answer pissed me off. Don't go around telling people to get abortions, like its as simple as getting a bloody vaccination. Its not. Its choosing to end a whole life. She definitely shouldn't take advice off you.

    • well , it's not a whole life yet is it ? it's a duplication of cells , not even a brain , toughts , feelings etc.. but it's a big thing people should at least take some time overthinking it yes. she's almost 18 so a baby wouldn't mess her life up the same way as with a 14 year old . however , it's still an option

    • There is no way I am getting a abortion I don't believe in that it's a person not just cells I'm not going to kill this poor helpless baby

  • Unplanned sex + no condoms, pills= stupid teenage mistakes

    • For your info I was on the pill & yes it was stupid but there is nothing I can do about that now

    • It doesn't matter, you still had sex

    • Yes and it was a stupid thing we did and we shouldn't have done it but it doesn't matter now what's done is done and nothing can change that and you're ticking me off you really don't want to mess with a pregnant lady

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