I'm really insecure about my boobs?

and since I'm insecure about my boobs I want to wear a bra during sex because they sag and I always hear about sagging being a huge turn off.Do you think my boyfriend will mind me wearing a bra?
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Thanks.I didn't realize how unattractive sagging is to guys so I will just keep the bra on and not let him see them.thanks to everyone to answered
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  • While sagging is physically unattractive he is your boyfriend if he won't love you for who you are no matter what body you have then you should probably find a new one. However I assume this is not so much about him not liking them but more about you being self conscience about them. In that case it should be okay just tell him your a bit shy about it and would like to keep it on. Now what I think would be the best advice for you is buying a demi bra, the bras that give support but don't cover the entire breast therefore still allowing the guy to have access to the nipple and breast, the demi bras are both extremely sexy and help you get support to not sag without taking anything out of the experience of sex for him (or you if you are one of those girls who are very sensitive in the nipples).

    P.S. Not all demi bras are cut low enough to show nipple the type I'm talking about will be most likely found in lingerie stores or online, in fact most demi bras cover it all and are just meant to create some insane cleavage

  • I've read many of the answers you got and I didn't get that message from that you should keep your bra on while f***ing your boyfriend. Every single guy answering your question agreed that while f***ing your boyfriend the bra should come off. We all agree your boyfriend wants to see your boobs when you're f***ing him. Not one of us told you to keep wearing your bra.

    • I don't want to turn him off though

    • It looks like all of us agree it will not turn him off and he will want to see you without a bra. If you still have doubt, then when the time comes ask him if he want you to take off your bra.

    • I just do not want to turn him off though because my breasts sag a little and are not perky.It's OK though

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  • honestly your boobs are perfectly fine! boobs to guys are like chocolates to girls. Although they may say they don't like some those guys are few and far between. Also if your boyfriend has already seen your boobs chances are he's not going to complain. Bras can help your boobs but they don't hide all problems so if you're attractive to him with clothes on you will be just as attractive with your clothes off. Sex is supposed to be fun so stop worrying you look fine! :D

  • listen..yeah..it might bother some guys but when you find the right guy he's going to think every part of you, good and not so good, is sexy. so find the right guy who you feel comfortable with and who loves you the way you are and your body the way it is.

    • so maybe I shouldn't wear it?I love him and we have been together for 4 years and for some odd reason he has waited for me for 4 years to have sex,so this will our first time together as a couple and my first time ever

    • I think after 4 years he won't care if your t*ts are sagging haha

    • how old are u

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  • i suggest not wearing one.. I don't think he will mind if his d is up yur p..

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  • The general opinion is that sagging is a turn-off,i but bras are a bigger turn-off.

    • Well I rather not turn him off so I will keep it on

  • Really saggy boobs are mainly a turn off if the girl is just standing there. During sex it doesn't matter, I at least like to feel skin on skin

    • but I do not want to turn him off then at all.I will wear a bra though

  • No, he will not mind. If gets you naked behind closed doors with the intention of sexual antics, he's not going to suddenly stop, zip up and leave because he saw sagging boobs. Don't wear your bra while f***ing your boyfriend. He'll want to see your boobs no matter how bad you think they look.

  • ... what answes did you read? because I sure as hell didn't get the same message from them as you did

    • I ignored the girls advice because I wanted mens advice and even the guys said it was unattractive and you told me to wear a bra so I will just wear a bra

    • I said to wear a bra if it was because you were too embarassed about it but not to wear it if it was only because you were trying to please your boyfriend, someone1234560 said that sex is about the flesh and there should be no bra, catiphilus and asplode both said that while sagging might be unattractive to just star at they rather have the bra off during sex no matter what and they both commeneted on how ost guys would agree. I only mentioned the demi bra because you seemed have the confidence issue

    • so I don't see where you got your desision from, if wearing the bra from the beginning was your plan that's okay but don't lie and say you are basing it off of what guys responded

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  • I would say no, don't wear the bra...

    One saying about sex is to "become one flesh" with your partner. You should be comfortable of your own body in front of him, and he should like you for how you look (every part of it). And if he really likes you, he will think you are beautiful from head to toe. Again, "to be one flesh" - I am sure that he wants to see and feel your boobs. Both be naked and share and enjoy every part of each other. =)

    PS: From experience, I enjoy unhooking my gf's bra the most (and she always tries to make that task difficult playfully).