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I'm really on cloud nine...?
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me and my sex buddy had AMAZING sex yet again last night. he was saying things to me like giving me compliments all night long telling me that I was beautiful and "cute" and that he has to watch himself because he says at work sometimes he catches hisself just staring at me like "DAMN!" and he said that sometimes he needs someone to pinch him to tell him if he's dreaming or not that he can't believe he's really having sex with me and has the privilege of touching and kissing me all over. and that I look at him in this certain way that drives him crazy. he says it's a seductive kind of look and he was asking me if I did it on purpose. I said that I don't know that I just know how to look at guys I'm attracted to. I think that he is really falling for me, what do you guys think? I think I'm falling for him too but I am being VERY careful about this whole situation.
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2 1This man is the master! If men took lessons from him they would never go a lonely night. Any woman would be crazy over a man who says these things to them. I got a little hot just reading it :) Besides all that I think you are right to be very careful about this situation. Those things are all amazing to hear but he may just know how to work it. Dig a little deeper into things that don't have to do with sex. Don't become crazy Bi*ch over night but check into other areas of compatibility. It sounds like right now "falling" sounds like falling in lust. Don't get me wrong lust is great but if you want things to last at all you two are going to need more than that. (Cheesy, cheesy yeah I know)
Long story short, we are friends with benefits but were friends long before we had sex. we both know that right now we are not looking for anything serious and when we do hang out we have a great time and he always treats me with respect and all our conversations don't revolve around sex only :) we always laugh together and he says he enjoys my company and not just the sex part. this is just what he says before, during and after sex. and yeah I agree with the lust thing definitely!
Ahhh! I hate to tell you this but the biggest regret of my life was ruining my friendship with the greatest guy I've ever met by becoming physical. He was the man of my dreams and still is but he no longer speaks to me. I hope for your sake this thing you have going with this guy works out. Be very careful. I miss that man :(
I know the friends with benefits thing can be so very dangerous. but we both were very hesitant getting into it because neither of us wants to ruin the friendship that we have. I actually tried to break it off (it's only been going on just about a month) and he pretty much begged me not to. he said "let's just go with the flow and take it day by day". now yes, I know he was saying that because he didn't want to give up the sex but he's such a good guy, I can't (at this point anyways) imagine ever hating him
Well, he is into you. He's laying it on thick even. That's not a bad thing. The thing is, are you planning on dating him? Have you two done stuff other than sex?
I'm not planning on dating him right now not "planning" on anything. we are friends and we have hung out and we have a great time together and he treats me with respect. he just has no problem voicing the fact that he really enjoys sex with me. we're just not ready to get into a relationship right now in our lives. I'm just on cloud nine after last night and I'm feeling like if things were less complicated I could date him. I do know he is sincere with what he says so it's a good feeling :)
Just be careful. I think he's saying it to be sweet but a part of that is because he wants some booty too.
Oh yeah I know how men can say things to get what they want but he does say these things to me when he's already gotten some or knows that's gonna happen so I'm not really thinking that he's just saying these things just to get some booty. but I am still going to be very cautious. thanks for the advice!
there is such a thing as being "too careful"
my advise, don't complain, live it up!