I really want a one night stand/NSA/FWB

I haven't had sex in 6 months =[ I am so horny & really want sex. Everyone I know is in a relationship, my ex boyfriend who I still like has a gf, I just want affection & sex. No emotional attachment or anything complicated. I'm very young (18) and just want to get out & have fun, meet people, have sex, be a teenager. My sex life is MY sex life & I'm not going to develop a reputation because no one needs to know. Problem is, I'm very shy & I don't go out often. So I'm not sure how to go about finding someone for this. I really really want to get laid & I'm fed up having my 'alone time', I want a REAL person!
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Going to a club, pub, alcohol places: They very rarely let me in. Also, If you were there looking to pick up someone & you saw a girl by herself. Just on her own & didn't come with someone, wouldn't you think it was odd & stay away from her?
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  • Wow! Though I could do the typical shallow guy thing and make some offer to come over and lend you a hand, I recon I'll dismiss with that part of this conversation at this time...LOL. It sounds to me like you are just sexually deprived, and yet don't exactly know how to come on to a guy yet. Believe me, it really isn't that hard to get a man to want to have sex. But, it is important that he knows you are interested in having it in the first place. There are a lot of aggressive women out there that get exactly what you are asking for.

    My question I guess is why are you so anxious to have random sex with just anyone? I know it sounds sexy, but it is a recipe for disaster. I guess the best advice I have is to just find you a man you trust and let him know bluntly what you need. I have a feeling you'll have at least one male friend that I more than willing to satisfy your needs to be taken care of sexually.

    • Lol, definitely very deprived. I would prefer to have sex with someone I don't know, because I get attached to people & begin to like people really easily. I would want a proper relationship but because of this whole attachment thing, my friend says it would be best to do casual dating & the NSA thing so I don't feel the need to develop an emotional attachment. I have guys I know who would be willing, but they'd tell everyone & I don't want a reputation or anything + it may get complicated.

    • "...lend you a hand, I recon I'll dismiss with that part of this conversation at this time..." wow and this is coming from a MARRIED man. Your intentions are clearly depictable.

    • Secret mystery...it was meant to be funny...sorry for misunderstanding.

  • This is how I wasted my youth. You'll have the time of your life.

    "My sex life is MY sex life & I'm not going to develop a reputation because no one needs to know." The smartest thing I've read in weeks.

    You're challenge, though, is your shyness: it just won't get you laid. Luckily, since you're a girl, you don't have to work that hard. Get out there, be friendly. If you find a prospect, lay out what you want honestly. You're a dream date, so you'll have your pick.

    P.S.: Solo women are the easiest to talk to--women in packs get mean and cockblock. If you don't want to go solo, go with mixed company, who won't mind when you disappear.

    • My friends aren't the type to go to clubs or interested in anything with the opposite sex. They see a guy looking in our direction, they laugh. So it's not the best idea to go with any of them. So, if a girls by herself, what sort of things would make you want to go & talk to her? I've heard from various people that I'm good looking, but no one ever really comes up to me, except for the sleazy horrible types.

    • Be friendly. Smile. It's appalling how many girls forget this, and it's a real turnoff when they do. Confidence helps, but it's a habit; approach enough guys and you'll get good, no matter what I watch her body language and how a woman deals with people. If she's friendly, I'll say something, just to take the gamble. If she looks panicky, stuck-up, or mean, I'll write her off--waste of time.

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  • Ummm...thats hard- are you sure you can't get a fake ID, cos I was just gonna say, unless you look like kathy Bates in Misery, if you put on your best dress, spend some time and money looking hot, you WILL get asked out at some point in one of those places (where most of the guys who go just wanna get some X-D) Other than that, you could try like any local hangout spots where guys are and try and meet someone- just amke sure he's not too shy if all you want is some sex!) xxxxxx But actually, you might just wanna be patient, because when you're not looking is when the right person can come along =D xxxxx

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  • go to a club

  • Hi, I am Xavier! :) I am willing to have one night stand with you! :) I am pleasant in looking so don't worry and my body is in shape too! :) I am looking forward to your reply! :)

  • Well, if you're looking for someone... 😜

  • I maybe intrested in ur offer. Kf i see a girl alone i would just go over, ask her whats wrong n maybe start a chat!

  • Well, all you need to to do is be confident. Im young myself too so dont let it bother you too much, can just ask. But towards the guy you find tat you can actually trust in case he spreads shits around. And yes, you can find me too:)) always available aye

  • Is the offer still up I can give u what u wan

  • Hi is the offer still up?

  • Hi im 18 this year too:D could u be interested

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  • well this can turn into a nasty thing

    just make sure you are careful

    and make him use protection!

  • besides like other guy friends you already know, I'd say clubs, bars, or maybe live music, maybe some other outdoor social event with a lot of people. even though you said you can rarely get into bars, and yea if you go into somewhere like that by yourself people would pry think something was weird or odd, so go with some friends lol overall I'm guessing it won't be toooooo hard for ya