I recently saw a friend of my wife's dancing at strip club (full nude), She also saw me but avoided me.

[Anonymous]

should I tell my wife about it first before her friend might tell her?

[Anonymous]

Honesty is the best option here. Also make sure to (if she starts PMSing) turn cold blooded and damand she explain why it is so wrong? She looks at guys besides you, as you do at women. If she says it's different counter her telling her it's only different in her mind and she's being selfish and needs to grow up. If she threatens to leave; tell her "That only shows how childish you are, and don't let the door slap you in the ass" don't be nice to her because she's going to halfway kill you over it and bring it up from now until your dead. Women do that a ton (in general) so make sure you have a hard skin. Being devoted every little second is what a woman wants while she bouces around - she's being selfish so do what you feel you need; Your a man, don't take no for an answer, do what you want and don't be dominated by your wife.

I apologize if this seems rude as it isn't meant that way, and help it helps just the same mate

[mikkie180]

That depends. Does your wife know her friend is a stripper? If not, keep your mouth shut and stay out of that club. Does your wife know you frequent strip clubs? Some women will be ballistic when they find out their husband went to a strip club, I know of 2 divorces. If your wife knows her friend is a stripper and they talk about everything, you may have to fess up. You can always swear it was not you, must have been your twin?

[Anonymous]

If you are open about it with your wife, tell her, but say it casually. Do not keep mentioning it. If she doesn't you know go to strip clubs, then you shouldn't mention it. If she knows her friend is a dancer, don't bring it up. Chances are she won't even care if her friend mentions it, unless you were hardcore hitting on her friend or something. Try to avoid that club, or at least watching her dancing.

My friend's dad walked in on me in the shower once, and he p*ssed everyone off because he kept saying "I just walked in on your friend in the shower, I just walked in on our daughters friend in the shower." and my friend was pretty p*ssed off, and so was her mom. It sounded like bragging. They were in the middle of a divorce, and I think that may have sped that up, she kicked him out that night.

[oncpl]

Having seen you she avoided, now better and advisable is forget her as you haven't seen her.