I saw my girlfriend giving head to her ex boyfriend in his car, what do I do?

I went over to my girlfriends house really late last Thursday because she wasn't answer my calls or texts and I saw her giving head to her ex boyfriend in his car. When I knocked on the window she looked startled but then they both laughed at me and went back to doing it. I was so mad I left but came back 5 min later and they were having sex in the backseat. This time when knocked on the window they just ignored me and kept going for like 10 more minutes, I was even crying and she didn't even acknowledge me. why would she do this if she loves me(which I know she does)? we were so happy? does she like him more than me? is it just a sex the sex? what do I do from here, I still love her?
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  • Hello,

    Ouch man, that is so messed up..

    ok here's what the story is, she doesn't love you... and the fact is she never did, the one she's really interested in is her ex and it was him the whole time she was with you, the reason they laughed is becouse she and him have talked about you and by the sounds of it she's been making fun of you BIG TIME.. ie she's been telling him how much she's can't stand you and how she loves the fact she has you wrapped around her fingure and how much better her ex is then you and how much she wants him back, I'm willing to bet what happened that night wasn't there first time and trust me it won't be there last.

    Now my crit of how you reacted, had I been in your position I would have teken a few pics right in front of them, wished them both well and made my way to the doctors in the morning for some much needed STD tests.. you just have no clue where a women like that has been.. just think about that for a min..

    So what do YOU do NOW.. well first you need to man up, youve just been emotional f***ed by what turned out to be a manipulating slag, just think of all those dates tou had together where you paid the bill, and the whole time she didn't have the guts to tell you she wasn't interedted and just wanted to use you.. (now what her matcho boyfreind can't see becouse of his over inflated ego is that she's going to f*** him about one day as well :).. thinking this will help you sleep..

    Right tomorrow is a new day sunshine don't cry over this bitch becouse brother she just ain't worth it, if she ever rings you up just repet this

    "Hey, yea I'm good thanks, listen I've got a date tonight so I can't talk but can you delete my number.. thanks bye"

    your going to be feeling like crap for a little while, the feeling of betrail carrys a real sting to is especialy considering she had no remorse.. but don't worry YOU WILL FEEL BETTER.. keep your chin up keep smiling and keep moving forward, its time for you to be a man..

    :)

    Good Luck, and trust me you'll be dating again before you know it

    -Chris

    • Just a few sugestions, 1 if your working let your boss know your girlfreind cheated on you and that you would apriciate more work been given to you to keep your mind occupide. 2: if you havnt then joing a gym.. its time to get in shape add to that changing your eating habbits. health and getting ripped will help boost your self esteam. 3: get the guys together and get your ass out there. talk to girls and have fun DONT talk to girls about this experiance..

  • "why would she do this if she loves me(which I know she does)?"...how do you figure? She had sex with someone else right in front of you, and on top of that didn't even care. She laughed at you. The cold hard truth is that if you go back to her, you are asking for it. Be a man and tell her to f*** off. She's worthless and you don't need to waste anymore time on her.

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  • She doesn't love you. In fact, I highly doubt she knows the meaning of the word. She doesn't have any respect for you. Look for a girl who actually CARES. There are ladies out there who wouldn't even think about cheating on you because they love you so much. Don't waste your time on her. She is the very essence of a slut. She doesn't necessarily like him more, or even at all, she just can't keep her pants on. Don't stay with a girl like that.

    Dump her, and get her out of you mind. The best way to get someone out of you mind is to live your life. Find new things you love doing, find new things that interest you, meet new friends who make you feel great about yourself, spend more time with your old ones, and spend more time with your family. Don't waste your time pouting over her. Sure, it is okay to feel sad for a while, but don't let it dominate your life. Go on living, and wait for a lady who actually has self-respect, and therefore can respect you. I am so sorry this happened to you. I wish you the best.

  • Hunny that's not love I'm sorry to say...She is no good and you deserve better! Love DOESNT cheat on you...she just seem to have lost interest in you an now likes this guy...if she even cared for you at all she would of stopped an tried to at least make an excuse but if she loved you she would have neva did it in the first place! She still has baggage from her last relationship an there are many other women who won't be into nobody but you :) ...I know you still love her an because she knows that she may try an use you...dnt be a door mat find a better woman who will make you smile ...hope this helps

  • 1. She doesn't love you. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. She totalyl ignored you when you caught her cheating on you. That's definitely not love!

    2. It's not just sex. She likes him more than you.

    3. MOVE ON.

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  • Dump her and move on, seriously, she sounds like a cold hearted bitch, no offence, but if someone is that sick that they can do stuff like that in-front of someone they supposedly love, then they are sick in the head.

  • I would break up with her. She cheated on you and it's obvious she does not love you if she continued to do it even while you were there.