I'm scared of penis, normal?

I'm scared of it. I'm a virgin though. Is this normal? Or does that mean I'm a lesbian?
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Like...idk they just scare me. PLus they're gross looking
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  • I think you may be more intimidated than scared.

    My advice would be that whenver you decide to have a sexual experience, make sure its with someone you are comfortable with and trust, so it will be a good experience for you!

    I would really recommend trying it in the dark first aswell if it still scares you. And just take it one step at a time, if you don't feel comfortable, stop and try again later!

    But I think that with time, and when you learn the ropes, you will realize it isn't scary at all :)

    Plus they taste and feel pretty good too ;)

  • I think penises will seem less scary once you have a boyfriend you love and become sexually active with :) I used to think they were pretty unappealing too, but then I fell for a guy, and thus fell for his penis, haha. Now I'm a big fan. Oh and it definitely doesn't make you a lesbian... unless you find guys unattractive and are sexually attracted to girls.

  • Are you actually frightened of them? I think for you its more of a fear of the unknown. When the time is right for you and you finally experience one you won't be scared. and if the guy is a gentleman he will guide you. so don't worry you will be fine. :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, it means you were brought up with some very f***ed up and puritanical attitudes towards sex.

    It doesn't mean you're gay, but it's not exactly normal.

    I'd be amazed if you masturbate, but if you do... do you fantasise about men or women? That should be your clue as to whether you're gay or not.

    • I masturbate but I don't need to fantasize about anyone or anything in order to reach orgasm

  • you may be a virgin, but have you ever done anything with a guy like a hand job, blow job, or some sort of dry sex? how did that feel? Are you emotionally attracted to men? I have a hard time using sex as the sole determiner of sexuality. so no, I don't think that that alone makes you a lesbian.

    • thank you. by the way, isn't that nancy pelosi

    • f*** yea it is.

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  • Idk why you wouldn't like it.

    It tastes like chicken.

  • Try to do it in the dark initially (sex, HJ or BJ). Once you get used to it, the fear will go away. Try to find an understanding and kind man.

  • Can you elaborate on your fear for our amusement? What exactly strikes you with terror?

    • What if I drew a smiley face on the head with a sharpie? Would that take the fear away? Perhaps a penis costume? Like a cape and a little hat?

    • hahahah a costume

  • Medorthophobia :O

  • Liking girls would make you a lesbians, and the lesbians I know have no fear of penis whatsoever--curiosity, boredom, indifference, but never fear.

  • Lesbo

    • I agree that they look gross, but then again I like vagina...maybe you like vagina, too

  • The one eyed snake strikes again !

  • you too old to be talking about you are scared of a d***! women up!

    • i have never touched one before or seen one in real life that wasn't my dad's.

    • y are you touching or looking at your dads d***?

    • I never touched it but I took a shower with my dad when I was little

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  • how you ever seen the movie tremors? they aren't as scary as that.

    and vaginas look like when the monster from Predator opens its mouth so there ya go!

  • It's okay, they don't bite. They like to be petted a lot, though. That makes them happy.

  • 1 eyed snake strikes again..its nothing to be scared of and the guy should understand and take it easy with you :)

  • Are you scared to see it or are you scared at having sex?

    I think it's normal to be grossed out if you're conservative but to be scared of it is just weird.

  • penis isn't a person. you're just scared because you've never experienced it

  • They feel a lot better than they look :D

    • Thats what I say lol (:

    • It's the truth XD