1. If a guy cares for you he is not going to grade you. Don't worry about that.
2. Cheerfulness and enthusiasm will counterbalance inexperience. Whatever he is doing for you accept it and do energetically as you would dancing.. When it comes to intercourse, your body will know what to do.
3. For oral, other foreplay and a general road map about sex, a little training will help you know what to do and give you more confidence. Go to a safe, clean (as in viruses) tube site such as X-Hamster and look at clips you find with sexual terminology as keywords. Be exact, not shy ( I could give you a list but don't want my response to be deleted...perhaps in a private message). That way you will know what to expect and what to do.
Be freshly bathed. Be sure your Vag is freshly rinsed (after a pee) because if I were him, I'd be likely to go directly to oral to get you aroused or bring you off the first time). Bring a sample size of water base lotion with you for giving him a hand job or for wetting your Vag prior to penetration because you will be virginally tight and may not be wet enough.
Good luck. Don't fear this. It should be exciting.
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are those sites free? Also, have you ever thought that a girls face looked stupid, while she was climaxing?
XHamster is free and safe. Looked stupid? NO! Exciting. I love to see her emotions out of control! When I do oral, I watch her face a lot! Tells me how I'm doing.
Unless you are an oracle you will not be able to judge your moves on whether he likes them or not. Best idea is to do what you like yourself and see how he is reacting. If he does not like his neck to be kissed you will notice. If he is trying to roll on top, you may just let him, if he is slightly pulling you on top, you may go that way. Good thing is: He most likely does not need your "help" to come off. If you are shy on your first time this is only natural and may even enable him to find his perfect rhythm more easily.
If you are just not able not to be scared, try to be indulgent to yourself. For example I for myself was so nervous during my first time that I even lost my erection. It was so embarrasing, I would have been happy to simply die or so. But she smiled and took it slow and in the end everything was fine. If he is not a complete a**hole you cannot do wrong. He will like your body either way!
Also: After the first touches and dirty things done it is 100% fine to just ask what he likes ;)
Have you ever thought that a girls face looked stupid, while she was climaxing? Is it not OK to ask what he likes before the "first touches and dirty things done"
I do not think a climaxing girl can look stupid to the one that brought her to the climax. Even if I would think so, I would just look at something else, breasts are not too far for example ^^ And of course is it OK to ask before anything happened as well... but if you would prefer to first try and talk afterward it would be OK, too
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When he does, he does also know what awates him.
And he still wants sex with you?
So where is the point being afraid? =P
Some guys like it to teach her girl I think. And its a nice thought that you are the first one doing it with her. It makes you feal special you know? (And women should know this word combination the best, so.. =P)
ya of course he knows, but he can still disappointed
What do you think is he expecting? Sometimes (Even at the start of a relationship) you just want to be intimate with the person and what can go wrong there?
you can't really do it wrong lol, just have fun, and ask him what he likes and you'll get to know, there's no reason to be scared, it's supposed to feel good and be fun!
Just suck his d-ck like a popsicle, like it's the most amazing thing you've ever seen and tasted! He won't be disappointed!
good luck
Also, have you ever thought that a girls face looked stupid, while she was climaxing? I wasn't planning on going down on him the first time though
No it doesn't look stupid, in the moment everything looks and feels good, just have fun, and definatley go down on him, suck the sh-t out of his d-ck and he'll be back for more.
The fact that you're a virgin will probably excite him.
Don't hold back. Don't worry about looking stupid. Be real, authentic, present and engaged and he'll go nuts.
why would he be exited about that, when probably had much better sex before?
When guys are comparing two girls they had sex with, I don't think her skills are what separates the experience. Its how attracted they were, and how passionate she was. The quality of stimulation is probably less important then how hot the situation is, and you being a virgin is hot. And he'll be thinking that you're tight. The first time my wife and I had sex, no doubt we've done 'better' since most times, but it is still one of my 'best' memories. It was a hot, hot scenario.
Animals & mentally retarded people have sex...why are you so nervous that you won't succeed? If he takes you for granted to that degree...trust me...you don't need him...(:
well they don't worry what their partner thinks about them or how they will look
LOL! Kudos..yes you are correct...but we all have to learn sometime...what kind of world would this be if I had no patience with youth? O:O
I doubt a guy can be seriously disappointed by sex unless he has had lots and lots of sex with super experienced ladies in which case you probably don't want that guy anyways because he'll likely have diseases and children with multiple women lol. Don't worry you really can't do anything wrong, all you have to do is lay back and spread your legs and smile because your body and vagina will feel so good to the guy that he will do all the work the first few times and not care much what you do as long as you seem like you like it also. After you have sex a few times it will just come naturally what you should do so just follow your urges and desires in bed. Trust me, a guy will not be bored with a girl he's attracted to that wants to have sex no matter what her experience level is and he will be very understanding if it's your first time if he's a good guy.
He did have a lot of sex before, he got tested though and he's STD free
scratch his back during sex. moan (don't overdo it) and beg him ("please don't stop"). act like a submissive slave girl (I don't know if he likes it, but most guys love submissive sex slaves). are you flexible? if so, that's a big plus... anyway, don't worry too much. if you worry too much, he'll feel your desperation (which is a bad thing. obviously)...
I am quite felxible, I used to be a cheerleader and did figure skating all my life. How does that help? What is acting submissive, what do I do to act submissive?
simple. let him dominate you completely. act helpless/weak and let him control you.
so basicly lay back and do nothing?
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