I SO BADLY want my girlfriend to choke me during...you know?

[Anonymous]

We're having a discussion about it, and she's being really apprehensive, but like I said, I SO BADLY WANT HER TO DO IT. Also, I realize the risks involved, so obviously we'll have a safety tap/word. What can you say that'll sway her opinion? (btw she will see these answers too lol) ;)

[Anonymous]

I enjoy doing it very much. A safe word/tap is a great idea. Personally, I never used one because he and I never talked about it, I just did it. BUT it was obvious 'to me' when enough was enough. I don't ever choke him with the intent of hurting him or making him pass out. I know how not to put too much pressure. I know how to vary the amount of pressure. I know how to position my hand and fingers to give different sensations, and how to choke him if I actually did want to take more of his air away.

I don't want to "sway her opinion", I more-so wanted to say that I find doing it thrilling and I think its cool that you discussed your wants with her.

[MrNameless]

agreed on the safe word!

[Anonymous]

Just do it! Trying new things is always a good time! Good luck have fun let loose

[Rykar]

Umm, although the orgasm is amazing, there are inherent risks involved. If you do it for too long, the person passes out, and may stop breathing altogether, so knowing CPR is kinda a must. There isn't a huge risk of this happening, but its still there.