I'm straight, but when I masturbate I think about girls?

It doesn't turn me on when I think about guys, and when I watch p*rn, most of it is just girls. But I've only dated guys, and I don't have any romantic feelings towards other girls. So why am I only turned on by women? I don't think I'm gay..
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  • I am completely the same, images of certain women really turn me on when I am alone but I have never actually been attracted to another woman. The idea of actually doing anything sexual with a woman doesn't excite me, and I get excited by being touched by men but when I masturbate I like to think of women's bodies, large breasts etc. This translates to my heterosexual relationships, where I like guys to play with my breasts and touch my body. I think it is normal but a lot of straight girls probably wouldn't admit to it.

  • It's something new and exciting, maybe knowing noting will happen and all the excitement. Is there a certain type of girl you do like? A close friend or not really?

    • No, usually just women in p*rn

  • Glad to find it's not that unusual.. I don't really understand it either I don't really want to have sex with other girls, but girls turn me on, too.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Honestly isn't that unusual google sex fantasies female or male typical I say in the top 5 will be straight hetero people think about the same sex. Generally more common in women I think there is higher on the list then men but not much only like a few places.

    Sound more bi curious to me I would say gay typically you can't stand the sight of opposite gender gender genitals

    • I never said I couldn't stand the sight of opposite gender genitals. They just don't turn me on when I'm alone

  • This is a known phenomenon among college aged women. In girl on girl p*rn the girls get treated well. Clumsy move too fast guys don't build up layers of emotion and sensuality. Or you might be a narcissan. Look in the mirror - are your shoulders wider than your hips? If they are there's a good chance you're bi.

    • What do shoulders and hips have to do with sexuality..?

    • What does testosterone and estradiol have to do with sexuality? If you gain weight on your belly you have a lot of testosterone in you, if you gain weight only on the belly you have a huge amount of testosterone in you. If you had high testosterone at the time when your shoulder bones were growing, then you will be bi. Look around you - see any high testosterone women? It's because they have pcos which is caused by exposure to bpa.

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  • I always think of girls when I masturbate! I think that's pretty normal, isn't it?

  • If there was a girl you found hot, would you want to f*ck her?

    • No, I don't want to f*** other girls

    • Then it's just how your fantasy life happens to work. Nothing to do but enjoy it.

  • Do you enjoy sex with men?

    • Yes, very much. And when I'm with guys and hooking up it turns me on. But when I'm alone, I can't get turned on by thinking about guys

    • Interesting. I've always thought women are, generally speaking, "prettier" than men (no matter which sex one is attracted to). Also, women are generally thought of as "sexier." Maybe that's all it is. I know that my wife has ZERO interest in really hooking up with another woman (she doesn't want to be anywhere near another lady's kitty), but is certainly aroused by nice bodies (especially boobs), nice hair, etc. Nothing wrong with appreciating attractive women, I say. Or maybe you're bi.

  • What is it that you think about? Not to sound stupid but like sexual stuff or what?

    • Their bodies, usually I picture things I see when I watch p*rn in my mind, like touching and girls giving other girls oral sex and that's what makes me horny lol. Maybe it's because I imagine those things being done to me? I dunno

  • you are just curious, just don't decide untill you try it and then see if you like it oe not