I think my fuck buddy is starting to like me?

When we were having sex he kept staring at me, saying a few dirty things but lots of ''you're so beautiful...'' and then he said like ''I think i'm in love :P'' at a comment earlier, I don't know if he was joking, felt awkward. I don't want relationship with him as I told him from the start.. what do?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • That can be tricky, I've been there. You can try asking him straight out if his feelings are changing for you, but keep in mind you may or may not get an honest answer. This happened to me and the guy lied and acted like things were cool. Of course, we continued hooking up and of course, he kept "slipping up" and it ended up making things 10 times messier in the end because, surprise, surprise my feelings didn't magically change the way he was hoping. If he does play it cool and you're still not convinced then just cut the poor guy loose. Better safe than sorry.

    • Wow that sucks.. sorry about that. Yeah i'm gonna wait a little longer before ditching him or not.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Ask him directly what he's feeling and explain to him what you want and what you don't want. If he's really starting to have feelings, I guess that it's time to stop having sex with him not to complicate things.

    • But how the hell would he start developing feelings for me? I dont get it, how is it possible? pls explain

    • When having sex two people get really close, it's the highest intimacy level between a man and a woman. Feelings can start showing up when you're too involved like this.

    • Ah damn.. then I should probably stop.

  • ''you're so beautiful...''

    wtf... move on. He likes you.

    • Ikr?

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  • since he used ":p" chances r he was jokin i believe

    • hopefully

  • You need to stop immediately before get worse.

    • Omg you think so? :S

    • Yea i've been there before. He will start to get jealous and he would thought that 'you are belongs to him' or something like that. just talk to him before you stop it.

  • Lay the ground rules to him again and make sure he understands them...

  • Ya think, eh? Didn't see that coming -_-