I used a dildo for the first time and now I’m experiencing bleeding, soreness and stinging when I pee.. am I okay?

Hey there.. so I’m a virgin that used a dildo for the first time today and and now I’m sore, not a lot of pain but feels almost like a bruising? Also when I peed around two hours after this i experienced stinging and blood from my vagina.. it wasn’t like period blood but more like a pale pink kind of blood. I’m almost positive this isn’t my hymen being broken as I’ve been using tampons for years and I’m very sporty and active in the gym so my guess is I’ve already broken my hymen a while back.. I know this my sound silly to some people but I’m obviously worried as I’m not very sexually active or experienced so I want to make sure everything is alright. Thank you for the help!
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  • You probably tore what remained of your hymen, it's a common thing to happen. I was like you and had torn my hymen playing softball. The first time I had sex it stung when the little bit of intact hymen tore to accommodate my guy. This happens when there is an opening through the hymen in the middle and can be small to an opening nearly as large as the circumference of the inside of your vagina. If you bled a little you probably had an opening large enough to permit a tampon to pass throu but not enough for penis / dildo to pass. The stinging during urination is likely from irritating your urethra, which is right in the vicinity of where you were pushing the intruding object into. It does sound as if you got a bit too enthusiastic for your first foray into dodo masturbation. Technically, you still could be considered a virgin because you have not had sex with a live male penis, only a silicone rubber imitation of one.

    If you are going to continue using a dildo to masturbate, you should probably invest in a good lube such as Astroglide or similar. It will make things slipperyier allowing the dildo to enter a little more gently.

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  • It sounds like you've just aggravated the tissue due to you not being used to penetration. The burning when you pee would not necessarily be a sign of a problem as your urethra is very close to your vagina and if your vagina has taken a bit of a beating then your urethra will feel it too. As for the blood, the fact that it was pale pink suggests a very superficial bleed, which again suggest minor tissue damage that you might expect during your first few sexual experiences anyway.

    My thought is that you will be back to normal in a few days. If you're not then consider seeing someone about it, but I don't think it will be necessary.

  • yes everything is most likely ok.. if the bleeding persists for more then a few days consult a doctor.. go out get a big bottle of lube from a store... not lotion or condtioner or something like that... sounds to me like you have torn yourself a little and most like bruised yourself some. vaginas are soft and delicate like a flower. but a good lube and a couple days feeling you should be back inaction and better then ever.

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  • You probably either went too rough or didn't lubricate enough. If it happens again you need to get it checked out

  • It sounds like the rest of your thing tore. The hymen can tear normally and often does but usually it does not tear all away. Think of it like ripping a sheet of paper. Ripping it leaves some around and in the hole. Where as poking through it does a much better job of moving the paper.
    You might have not cleaned it before using it or you got a UTI from maybe even the germs on your hands.
    The soreness since it was your first object is normal cause it was the first time using those muscles.

    I suggest that you still go see the doctor about it.

  • You will be fine, is that the first time that you've had vaginal penetration? Chances are you just stretched your vagina a little you possibly could have tore your hymen a little. Weight for a couple of days and see what happens. I'll bet that you are fine

  • Don't use it, it will desensitize your sexual experiences. Try just using maybe a softer dildo maybe... or go out and use the real deal. I'd help you if I could, i'll bring flowers and a tub of ice cream too.

  • I think this could be your hymen cause it will not always break Due to sports and tampons but the dildo was probably big enough to break the hymen completely

  • Typical. It should quit in a day or so. If not, and if you think you have a medical condition, then see your doctor.

  • You very well could have bought one way to big. Try a smaller one and use lube or make sure you're very wet. Start with small toys before you think you need a monster, few women do.

  • First all you wasn't ready for that you took on something that you needed to build up to. You heal up but don't hurt you again

  • This is obviously one for the girls.
    But, as you not being sexually exerienced its probably just a sore vagina? I think you'll be just fine, however if the pain persists and doesent get better in 24 hours I'd see a general practitioner of medicine.

  • You r fine.
    Just b kind to your vagina.
    Use lubricants.
    Use dildo only when you feel wet.

  • Sounds like you used too little lubrication and you hurt your inner tissue.

    • Thank you for your answer! Should I go to the doctor with this or will it heal by itself?

    • If it the bleeding persists, i would but give it a few days. you need to buy actual lube this time.

  • Don't use it rough before using it try some fingering and don't insert it if you have dry pussy

  • Im not sure...

  • You are not virgin anymore.

  • You should probably see a doctor. You could have hurt yourself.

  • Let me soothe you with my tongue

  • Maybe you masturbated to rough.

    • It was my first time using anything like that and I like to think I was delicate but maybe you’re right, I just wasn’t used to it. Thanks either way.