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I'm a virgin but its driving me crazy!

i want to wait until I'm really close to someone to lose it but god the wait is killing me I constantly thinking about sex what's it like how it feels I already sorta know how I like it ( I got close with a friend with bene) and ever since then. I want it ALL the time I think about in school while I'm watching tv, when I'm with friends and were talking about guys, I have sex dreams all alot! its so annoying! because 80% of the time that's what's on my mind.
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okay everyone is worried that I'm going to be sum hoe I'm not! i said I'm waiting and I will wait I don't believe in doing everyone just because I'm bored!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • WOW! It should actually be the opposite! Virginity should be a good thing. Not something that's driving you crazy. Why aren't you interested in anything else or involved in some other things to improve yourself or have fun with friends? Getting this sex thing going isn't all what it's all cracked up to be. Once a girl starts, they start bragging in hopes of dragging other virgins down to their levels. Before you know it, you'll have a string of guys behind you that had their fun with you and them marched on. This is the kind of thoughts you'll carry with you the rest of your life. It'll no doubt be hard to have a good and decent relationship with your husband because of all your "experience" and because of that you'll find yourself getting bored with the same ole guy all the time. Hopefully, you won't have gotten any STD"s or gotten pregnant and suddenly your whole life changed. Just slow down your thoughts and take your time. When you meet a guy that you fall in love with and trust. serious love, then you can start thinking of having sex. Until then, let the guys that only want sex with you pass you by. Don't ever feel left out of that crowd. Once you're out of school, all this talk about sex and are you still a virgin will be part of your past. Live you life to the fullest. But that doesn't mean full of sex. You'll probably think this answer is a joke and laugh at it like many will, but if you do, someday you'll realize the wisdom it holds. By the say, the more you allow yourself to think of having sex, the more you'll want it until you get desperate to have it however you can.

    • I think about but I won't act on it until I'm in a seriously long term relationship. I'm not a little hussy

    • Thanks for your comment. Now that sounds much better to me. You're ok by my standards.

  • There are plenty of things you can do that don't include intercourse. I assume that is what you are talking about when you talk about losing your virginity. There are other forms of sex such as oral, petting, or even dry humping. You might try some of this to release the energetic buildup that is going on for you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • call me.(just kidding).abstinence is best.it's possible to have sex without going all the way you know.don't be ina hurry for ANY reason! this how unwanted pregnancies occur!

    do fancy being stuck with two or three kids and playing mommy ? I'm sure you have the finances to do do.right? like for about 17 or maybe 18 years?

    think I'm being extreme? do some asking around! there's other ways to have sex with a boyfriend without going all the way.keep this in mind.it only takes one mistake,one time! just once! and you can easily wind up being mommy for the rest of your life! scary? I HOPE so!

  • uhm have you tried masturbation lol um what age are you because if you're under 18 that's really weird I mean you have you're whole life ahead of you and there are so much things that come with sex so for now I say chill take a cold shower or masturbate it's better than having sex just to have it and not caring about the guy you're doing it with. Good luck also maybe when you think of sex try doing something to take your mind off of it like working out that could help as well.

    • I agree I should have had your advice along time ago. I have a 3yr old.

  • i know exactly how you feel! I'm right with you. glad to kknow I'm not alone!

    • I feel like a little nmyfo lol i just wonder how ill be when I do get close to some one : /

    • The key is to get close to only someone you trust

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  • you should be proud that you';re a virgin and like being a virgin is something to be proud of these days because its like being a princess/ good girl you no,dont worry you will find the guy but why don't you stay a virgin until you get married , guys have more respect for girls who are virgins than the ones who are not trust me.

  • Don't worry virginity is not fatal, and completely curable. :) Masturbate more often and be patient.

  • Stay a virgin until you find the right guy for you. Don't just go out & loose it because of these needs.

    There are a lot of questions & answers here about masturbation. Search for them here.

    I've read some do it 2,3 even 4 times a day. You have to take the "edge" off somehow.

    Good luck but please search the different Q & A. I hope they help.

  • You're supposed to feel like that, its normal. I would suggest learning how to masturbate and looking around for someone who is responsive and responsible.

  • I was like that also before I took that big step. Its normal teenage behavior. But I waited until my MIND was ready - not my BODY or else I would have done it a long time ago but when I did I was ready and I don't regret it at all.

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