I'm a virgin, but I want to hook up with a player, advice?

Question

I'm 20 years old and I'm still a virgin. I have a crush on a guy, but he's a big player, which doesn't bother me. I want to have sex with him (I'm prepared for it, I won't be sorry)... but the problem is:I don't want to him to know I'm a virgin. Is it possible for him not to notice?I use tampons, I have also fingered myself, but I'm scared if there will be blood he will knew or that his penis won't go inside...Any advice what I should do that he doesn't notice?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Tell him you're a virgin and you want him to be the first. Why?

1) He'll love the fact that he will be the first d*** in your body.

2) He'll be flattered for life that you requested him be the first.

3) He'll be understanding if you're not so good in the sack yet.

4) Guys love to teach girls things.

Trust me, if he's a player and thinks you've got experience then he'll probably just think you're bad in bed when you finally do it. You've got to establish his expectations.

l-hedoniste · Accepted Answer

Just do it. If he's a real player, he won't care--a lay is a lay is a lay.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I actually did  exactly that. I was almost 20 and I let him think I'd had sex before, we just hooked up for a night. He didn't think I was a virgin, but he did think I was pretty lame in bed since I didn't really know what I was doing. Despite reading a kajillion tips on here, on the web and having been experienced doing other things the whole experience of actual sex plus it being just a ONS freaked me enough to have me not at my best.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

dont do it if you don't want a std. he's probably been with loads of girls if he's a player. condoms arnt that reliable. You may not bleed when you first have sex but you will probably feel pain.

blue_ink · Accepted Answer

that should be a fairly simple thing for you to accomplish

AustinMan · Answer

The obvious answer is to go buy a good sized dildo at some place like Cyndie's and use it to get yourself opened up a bit.  If your hymen is still intact, you could ask your doc to break it.

PicklesMr · Answer

You could try out some hook up websites like in order to find what you want. I've used it for some time and managed to get some very cool girls there. Soooo cool :)

betweenthesheets · Answer

How about I fuck you first and then you can try it out with that guy?

Anonymous · Answer

if there was blood when you fingered yourself he wouldn't know a thing, accept the fact that you will be tight as hell, I know a thing or two about virgins, they bleed only when the hymen is tared, and that happens only once... you're goood