I want him to use me?

Yes. I know that sounds crazy, but has it ever happened to you? I like this guy a lot. But I've also lied to him, A LOT, and it wasn't anything serious, like I told him I've had sex before. LIE! But I've moved to North Carolina and am going back there in march, and I've been working out and I plan on being smoking hot by the time I go. His band has a show that night and I was gonna go and then afterwards hand him a victoria's secret bag with a box of condoms and cute lingerie in it. I know he's into me but is that too forward? I want HIM to take my virginity.
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  • It probably isn't a good idea to lose your virginity to a guy who you've lied to extensively. You should probably delve into the reasons behind your lies and figure out why you have been less than truthful. Is it because you think he wouldn't like you for who you are, i.e. a virgin? Relationships HAVE to be built on trust and honesty, or they won't ever work out. Perhaps it would be best to find another guy to take your virginity. Start out by telling him the truth, and work your way toward sex.

  • Not being bad but it's usually best a guy knows you haven't had sex because if they think you have and you actually haven't and you don't really know what your doing when you do it with him he's probably gonna think ok she doesn't know what she's doing !! I'd rather a guy know I was a virgin so that when we did have sex he wasn't expecting me to be an expert and he could show me a thing or two...<3

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  • Under other circumstances, that would sound pretty good. But, keep in mind something: Guys get into bands to bang chicks, lots of chicks!

    So, if you are comfortable with the idea that he won't necessarily want only you, then that's okay. But, if him being with many girls before AND after you is something that you don't like, then you will want to re-think what you are planning to do. Expecting a guy in a rock band to be faithful is asking alot, because they get offers all the time.

  • You're under 18, how old is this guy? Sounds a little shady to me.

    That aside, you would be acting way too desperate if you handed him that bag with a box of condoms. Guys are really easy, I wish I could find a girl willing to go to half the distance you are.

    • He's 17. Almost 18. That's why I wanna do this before it illegal.

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