In my experience, this will work if you are on the same page and very secure in your relationship. He would not cheat after because that is breaking your trust, if your doing it together it can improve your relationship and strengthen your trust. Make sure he is on the same page, I doubt you would ask him for a threesome with 2 guys but let him know beforehand if that is the case.
Now if both of you decide to do it the hardest part will be finding someone that you absolutely know is clean and can trust, at the same time its best if its someone that niether one of you will see regularly. This can honestly take years to find so if you both have patience it can be something to look forward to.
haha, I would probably think my girl would be joking too, just because so many issues of jealousy and stuff can come out of this, especially on the side that has the same gender. like in a 1 guy 2 girl, the girlfriend would probably get more jealous, and in a 1 girl 2 guy the guy would.
But that's why if you want it to happen, you should just be straight up with him and promise not to get jealous.
Also, I'd choose a friend he doesn't know well and doesn't see often. Cause, you don't wanna try and get one of his friends, as there might be feelings there
Don't do it with friends thats where jealousy starts do it with some one you know he isn't gonna meet up with later because has no way to contact them thats what I did
Bad idea, my best friend was swinging at it f***ed up her marriage and now her ex man has the kids and she has to watch another woman stepmothering her children and he has twins with her now. There was no jealousy, they just found other partner( the threesome people!) and became like roomates then split up. They did it for a long time and one day it just destoyed all feeling of love and sacred partnership. This is a real life example. If you want an experienced opion-from reality, not scenario, chew on that for a while girl and really think it through k. Best wishes
Unless you happen to know of another girl who is hot for your boyfriend or one who would f**k him just for the sake of getting some penis, finding that 2nd girl could be your major hold up. It needs to be someone very comfotable being naked with both sexes and open enough to be able to have sex with others around. Your best bet might be to get hooked up with a swingers group, but usually they are an older crowd, but they would welcome you with open arms.
Go for it! Of course, I am totally selfish. If I had a threesome, she would have to be a lesbian. Don't touch my man. Lol.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Are you sure once you did this...you wouldn't be asking your Boyfriend to have another threesome with 2 guys and you alone? check your limits girl. I would definately leave my girl if she asked me something like this.
This happen only in casual relationships and I am a guy who beleive in serious one ot one relationship.
Yeah seems like fun fun to do and any guy would love it probably, but at the same time know that A LOT of issues problems will rise after this happens and you can't take it back, be aware of that!
I agree. As a guy, it sounds VERY fun to try, but it never goes well when you're in a relationship. Because one of the people in the relationship ends up paying too much attention to the 3rd person, and not their partner, and it makes their partner insecure after that, always wondering if they thought the 3rd person was hotter, better, more fun etc....
Exactly, not to mention how He could get used to this and could not even get satisfied without a third person and it becomes an addiction.. Once you open that door when you re in a relationship, it means you re going to be swingers.. and honestly swinging never works in serious relationships.. Also who knows what will he be asking her to do next, gang bang, orgy, couples swap etc etc ! Ahhh too much drama, go on this road if you don't give a sh*t about this guy simply.
Woah! I never once said I don't care about him. I love him to bits and he's my world. I just want to make things more exciting. I don't see how you could come to that conclusion from me sayin that I want a threesome!
Threesomes usually only end well in p*rnos...
Just approach him in a serious tone and say that you've been thinking about a threesome and wanted to talk to him about it. Discuss it between the two of you and see if it's something he'd be willing to do. If he thinks you are joking just tell him that you want to be taken seriously and he should listen.
Be aware of the fact that it might change your relationship. Some people have done this sort of thing and have been perfectly fine. Others have done it and it has changed the image of one or both of the people in the relationship. So be sure it's something that you both realize is fantasy and can be kept separate from your normal life in the relationship.
Bring a girl. He won't think you're joking then.
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