"I want you to gag"? Why would he want me to gag on his penis?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend wants me to gag while giving him a blow job. Why? & should I be offended? Is this common?

[Loran7]

Is he big enough to make you gag? If not, this could explain his motivation. As others mentioned, if he watches p*rn, he probably sees girls gagging on big thick 8" + penises and thinks that its exciting. (When its actually pretty uncomfortable). If you don't wanna do it, tell him you like to do it your way and then blow his mind with your own style of bj. If you haven't tried it yet, take both of his balls in your mouth while you stroke him and see how he likes that. He will forget all about the f**ging thing if you do that well. ;>

[Asker]

Not sticking hairy balls in my mouth. They wouldn't fit anyways.

[AnonGuy]

Too bad for the QA because Loran7 is right. I hope you enjoy gagging on **** then!

[Asker]

Funny thing is - I don't have to do either of those things, actually.

[alchemy12]

It will make him feel big if you gag. It's an ego thing.

[KJT6989]

I agree! It's a ego thing!

[Asker]

Men are dumb. He already gives me a sore jaw and I have to worry about hitting my teeth constantly, so he already knows he's big.

[lovez4]

my boyfriend does that too, he knows he is big and can get a little too comfortable with it while I give him head

[Asker]

Best answer because you got the most up votes!

[alchemy12]

I was seeing someone who like me to gag. He did watch a lot of p*rn but he was also insecure about his size. He admitted to me that he liked it because it made him feel bigger in size. Gross. Anyway, thanks for BA.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Some guys get off on this (thanks to prn). The idea is that if you're really gagging, then he's so 'big' you can't take it all.

Whether you are offended or not is up to you. Like any other sexual kink or fetish, if you're eager and willing to accommodate him, then it can be an exciting aspect to your relationship. If you are not into it or willing to do it, it's gonna turn bad if he presses the issue.

It's certainly not my thing.

[Anonymous]

I have no idea why guys enjoy this, because it has no pleasure benefits to us whatsoever, but as far as I can make out, it is to belittle the woman, because he has made her do something she clearly finds uncomfortable, and why women comply is beyond me, because if you really knew what you looked like when you do this, you would refuse, there's no need whatsoever but a "do as I say" respect issue, so yes, be offended, I bloody would be,x

[JohnBelluci]

He probably got used to that practice by watching p*rn and now he wants it in real life with you.

I don't think you should be offended at all but if you don't feel like doing it it's ok.

[G_GTom]

I'm guessing a domination thing. I can't stand to hear that. Gagging is not the sound of pleasure.

[Anonymous]

I have no idea. It seems gross to me

[Anonymous]

yes you should be offended.your boyfriend is an a**hole.

[Anonymous]

I like that too. Honestly its hot to have a girl take more than she can handle comfortably so gags on it. She's willing to take a little pain to satisfy you, feeds the ego and makes you feel dominant.

Should you be offended? No. Just tell him what you think.

Its sorta common. I'd say like 45% of guys like it. In p*rn girls are always gagging, I think its hot.

[whirlbelle7]

Why should a woman "take a little pain" to satisfy a guy? Most of lovers don't do the bare minimum to satisfy me and they sure as hell aren't going to "take a little pain"

[Opinion Owner]

@whirlbelle7 - I'm not saying a woman "should" take a little pain, just that it's cool and sexy of her, if she decides to. Everyone has different standards by which they will operate. They might give a shoulder rub because they want to do it for him, not so they can get one in return. Others might do so for an equal reciprocation. Totally understandable. But I'd be lying if I didn't say that her doing so just because you want her to, and not expecting anything from it isn't awesome.

[Anonymous]

It's because he watches a lot of p*rn.

It's up to you if you'll feel offended.

[Anonymous]

Its a domination thing I guess.