If I'm 16 and I've kissed 20 guys, am I a slut?

I'm 16 my total guys are 20; would you think I'm a slut?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • People only respect you as much as you respect yourself. They are going to lose respect for you if you appear easy (which kissing a lot of people may seem to be). Yes, people are going to judge you for having low standards and guys are going to take longer to respect you - many are probably going to try to sleep with you, thinking that you're easier than girls who reserve kisses for special men.

    However, in the end it all matters what YOU think. Your attitude is going to influence how people think about you. If you seem embarrassed by how many men you've kissed (this includes an "overcompensating" attitude), them they're going to judge you harshly, because if you find your behavior appalling, then there must be something that they should be appalled by too. So I don't think that 20 makes you a slut at all, although I think it implies low standards and you should respect yourself more. But in the end, it's all about YOUR attitude. Never do something you wouldn't be comfortable owning up to. You're worth more than that.

  • lol wtf ... well you might get heroes or something after kissing taht many guys but no your not a slut until you start taking money for sexual services

  • Slut? No I don't think that kissing a lot of people makes you a slut at all.

    • she could be spreading cold sores and herpes.

    • HAHAHA @7121uc

    • Well then that REALLY sucks for the people she would be kissing then but I doubt that is the case.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Nope, not in the slightest. People can't judge because one has more experience then the other, unfortunetly people do that. Its how the world works, its double standard, if a guy has sex with 4 girls he's the man, but if a woman has sex with 2 guys, she's a slut? WTF. I think its how society put this image on women to be saints or angels or some crap. I for one don't buy it...but before I continue to ramble on, to wrap it up, no it doesn't but others may think otherwise, just keep it to yourself for now.

    • @phoenix1991- always has good freakin answers :-)

    • not true D=

  • No you are not a slut for kissing a guy that is 20 years old you can kiss how ever you like. No one can give you sh*t for doing it the one thing you have to think of he is 20 and your just 16 so just be care full it dose not go to fare than just a kiss.

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  • No to me

    Yes to people who think your behavior is slutty.

  • if you were 16 and phucked 20 guys I may think differently of you...hell I cnat even remember how many people I've kissed since I was 16...hmmm

  • No, absolutely not.

  • Kissed? No. Whatever.

  • No,just a candidate for herpes.

  • Well you haven't had 20 d***s inside you because I can see how that would be slutty by that age but 20 if an aweful lot of guys to have kissed. What are the requirements?

  • welll if kisses only then no your not a slut.

  • No that does not make you a slut, now if you have slept with 20 guys than yes you would be a small slut.

  • Of course, what do you think?

  • kissing nothing to do with being a slut and I would actually expect that you have kissed lots of guys since I would assume you have had lots of boyfriends

    • Not at all, I just kiss the guys I like. I have never had a bf

    • I that if you good looking I would assume you have had a lot of boyfriends

  • I lold.

    Nope, that's perfectly fine.

  • that is acting kinda slutty but no you are not a slut.

  • Yup, you naughty naughty girl you!

    No it's totally fine lol!

  • That's a lot, but no.

    • What kind of kissing though? Do you mean you've made out with 20 guys? I still say no by the way.

    • REALLY making out not just a kiss

    • Oh. A bunch of guys will say you are, but you aren't. I've had some girls tell me like 5 guys in one night. :|

  • no, but if you open your legs to 20 guys then yeah, but your fine :)

  • Not in my eyes

  • no, just really easy

  • haha. nope. kissing isn't a bad thing. I've known girls that do that to their guy friends all the time. now if you have sex with 20 guys... thatd be a different story. xD.