If a girl blue balls you does that make you want her more?

I have blue balled the guy I'm seeing on countless occasions because I am a virgin. He always tries to pressure me to have sex and it pisses me off so as punishment I blue ball him. He doesn't know this yet though.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Actually, I think you can use it to make him want you more. Tell him you feel beautiful, happy, and appreciated when his balls are aching for you. Tell him you feel sexy and powerful that he accepts it. Tell him he's more handsome and his kisses are better when his balls are sore. Once you've made these connections in his mind, things should get pretty dark, pretty quickly.

  • we just jerk off to relieve the sexual pressure. not sure why you tease him and not put out. but girls do stuff like that. we are used to it. as long as you know he is jerking off and maybe thinking about you and maybe not. then no worries. but there are girls that will not leave him with horny blue balls and he knows that too. your call.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I do it to my boyfriend. Or used to. He wants to have sex and I tell him it's not happening but he just can't leave me alone. So I tease the f*** out of him. I've made him cry before, it was so bad. Now we only have sex when I agree haha. Whih is pretty often. sometimes they need to learn how to take no for an answer. but no, it will not make him want you more.

    • Actually, I think you can use it to make him want you more. Tell him you feel beautiful, happy and appreciated when his balls are aching for you. Once you've made that connection in his mind, things should get pretty dark, pretty quickly ;)

  • Owww. Bad idea. From what I hear it hurts. Think of how uncomfortable you'd be if you were on the verge of orgasm and a guy refused to finish you? Also, doing anything vengeful to someone you're DATING (hear the incongruence there?) is just such a bad idea. He's wrong to pressure you, but who can blame him for wanting it so badly?

  • Good girl, make that jerk suffer! Don't fall under pressure! Take your time when it comes to sex, you don't want your first time to be with an a**hole..

    and yes blue balling him will make him want you more

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  • No, that would make me lose interest in the girl quickly. I don't like to be teased, especially on purpose.

  • LOOLLLLL. I, personally, think that's great...

    And yes, it does make me want her more, but really I don't suffer when getting 'blue balled' as you all say (like, white and black balled in the Freemasons). I am fairly used to not getting off, and I can't imagine why it really hurts or drives people nuts. I am very fond of teasing, personally, ahaha, but this stuff just sounds so tame. I don't know why it upsets people at all, really.

  • Wow! You're not right. At all. You give women a bad name. You should not be using sex, or no sex in this case, as a punishment. It isn't something you "do" to get even with someone. If you don't want to have sex with him & he pressures you, you just tell him no & do not put yourself or him in the position for you to be pressured.

    BTW, I am fairly sure that he knows what you are doing. There is enough blood in his brain for awhile, at least, to figure this manipulative game out.

  • Jerk him off, you're being mean to him. If he is pressuring you then breakup with him. But stop making him suffer.

  • Short run maybe, long run total loss of emotional connection.

  • Pitiful how the girls agree with you (on the most part) and the guys don't (on the most part)...seems a bit gender biased, doesn't it?

    • When I achieve world domination, double-standards will be the first thing I banish >:)

    • Speaking of double standards..how about that movie, Magic Mike?

    • Ew ew ew. So not attractive. I like a manly man, not one who dances around like a girl. Blehhh!

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  • yes

  • He shouldn't be pressuring you and you shouldn't be doing that. Neither males nor females should be abusive or manipulative when it comes to sex. Guys get all the bad rap but apparently females are just as bad. TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT

  • Just give the poor guy a blow job.

  • I am not a guy but I am going to guess he will want her less than before, since he knows she will only give him blue balls again. I don't know why you stay with him if he is pressuring you and why he stays with you when you give him blue balls all the time. I guess you two are a match made in hell.

  • you shouldn't date a guy who pressures you for sex. date a guy who respects you, then you won't have to go through this.

  • Just give him a hand job or let him dry hump you.