If a girl offers you to give a a blowjob,would you think she is a slut?

If she isn't ur gf,would you accept it,and if you accept it,what would you think about her,be honest ;) Can you imagine to begin a relationship with sex?
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  • No she is not a slut, you know I find girls use that term more then guys ever did even when I was in college.

    What makes a girl a slut is more personality then action. How you do something & why as opposed to what.

    Can I imagine being in a relationship without sex? Yes

    I can also imagine Purple Unicorns and black dresses that dance on their own but don't want to live in that world.

    Would I accept a blowjob from a girl I deeply cared about? yes in a second. What would I think about her?

    1. If she was good, I would both want her to do that again and be kind of impressed (most girls are bad infact most who utter the phrase "I know the problem isn't me cause I give the best blowjobs in the world" or something like that are often really bad)

    2. I would think her to be into me needless to say and a fun girl. If she asks for money or starts acting weird then that changes things but the oral alone with a girl I didn't just meet doesn't effect me much at all.

    We do need to organize a board on this site to clear up what is and is not a good blowjob. It took me years to get good at oral with girls and I still can have a off day if I am tired or distracted and that is way easier then giving a guy head. I admit that it's harder but odd so many are proud of doing a bad job.

  • I am, and I believe that people should be more free willed with their sexuality and stop living two lives. ya know, the one life that you show on the outside to gain approval from those around you, and then the one you keep bottles up inside. the adventerouse one with all the passions and sexual desires.

    why would I ever call or think of a woman as a slut for wanting to please me. guys that bear down on women for sexually expressing themselves are usually just taking out their own frustrations on life and need to hold somebody down to make themselves feel better.

    • Get real guy. This isn't free sexual expression. This is street whore behaviour. "Taking out their own frustrations...."; What the hell are you talking about? There is no basis in fact for that statement.

    • So lemme guess, either you are a member of some religious cult or you just don't get any which is it? oh yeah, and yes, I have been offered blow jobs by women who would not mess with just any guy, and no, not for money.

    • Really Wildcard! If you have read some of my past commets on this site you know that I am as about as liberal with sex as one can get, and I can tell you I have never nor has any of my female aquaintances ever just offered a bj to someone we might be attracted too or desire to have sex with. And we have done some crazy things!!! It's only my opinion but I think your fanatacy is writing these statements of yours.

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  • I think it depend on the situation.

    If it is someone you know and say a friend maybe then it's probably not so bad.

    If you're at a bar and walk up to some guys and say "Hey how about a blow job?" You probably shouldn't expect any sort of relationship out of that.

  • I don't know if I would OFFER.I would just like do it. I mean if your making out or fooling around, then just go down there.DONT OFFER. that would be awarkard. Hey, wait would you like me to give you a BlowJOB.NO.just do it

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  • I'd love her.

  • Answer to question:

    1. Nope. I respect women who love sex.

    2. If I was single, then - in principle - yes.

    3. I'd think she's pretty darned groovy.

    4. Certainly can, and certainly have.

    I wish that one day we might stop dumping on girls who like sex. The 'slut' tag is another double-standard amongst a set of inconsistent and outmoded morals.

    • Dumping on girls that like sex is different then dumping on girls who walk around offering strangers' blowjobs.

    • The double standard does not apply here. Go up to a girl you like at a bar and ask her if she would like you to eat her p***y. Let me know how that works out for you. This has nothing to do with liking sex; it has to do with appropriate social behaviour.

  • Any guy if not crazy would! it really depends on how you carry yourself in front of people. I've been wit girls that would blow me and would ask my freinds to blow them after she was done. but on the other hand, I f***ed my ex girlfriend the first day I met her, and she turned out to be my faithful girl for over a year and a half. To clarify you ludacris couldn't have said it any better "I want a lady in the street but a freak in the beddd"

    good luck babe

  • I would accept. but she'll never be my GF, I'll label her a SLUT in my book. Honest

    Wouldn't wanna date her at all, would definately go on a "date" but because I know where its gonna end.

    Couldn't give a 2 monkeys wot happens to her. Just being real with you

    because I would think wot else has she done or can she do.

    I would think I can make her do anything and probably can.

    100% honest answer.

  • well, to be completely honest, if your looking for a relationship with someone, offering them a BJ is not the greatest way to approach the subject. You want mutual respect.

    Think about it in the other way. If he offered to perform on you, what would you think of him?

  • Mha :D

    Doubt I want any relationship which starts with sex.

    Rather learn know her better etc etc. . . When the sex steps in eventually.

    I would say that's not the way to start relationship.

  • I would be interested in knowing how a girl goes about offering a guy a blowjob. The only time I've had offers like that was from street whores. So, if you offered me that, then I would have to ask how much.

    • I offered it to a guy whom I really like and planning to lose my virginity,u know,but I'm not sure I wanna do this,coz we are not together yet,even if we want each other badly ;)

    • If you want each other badly why aren't you together? If it is someone you care about and it's your virginity don't do it until the time is right or you'll get hurt. Never sleep or foold around with someone you care about to start a relationship, it usually ends badly.

    • AJtogo, this might be different than what you're asking as I will be referring to my boyfriend and not just a random man, but I offer him blow jobs a lot. I say, "Do you want a blow job right now?" or "Do you want me to suck you c***?" It's all in efforts to turn him on if I'm horny, but hopefully that answers your question about how one would go about offering a blow job.

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  • YES

  • I'd accept it. I'd think she's friendly.

  • Honestly? No I would not accept it, yes I would think she was a slut, and no I could never begin a relationship that way.

  • '' Can you imagine to begin a relationship with sex? ''

    Yeah I can see it happening.

  • i would think its my lucky day then I would see what happens after

  • No. She's grateful

  • From a random girl; no. From a good friend that's a girl. maybe. I'd feel guilty though. :(

  • no she would just be considered a friend with benefits.if she wants to deep throat my shit, yeah that's fine, but no relationship ever.

  • no I would accept if I knew she was clean!