If I got fingered am I still a virgin?

I have never had sexual intercourse but fingered me several times. I just wonder if I'm still a virgin or not?
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yes, but it was my boyfriend who fingered me ,not me alone, still it doesn't change anything , I'm virgin?
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  • Yeesh, that's such a loaded question these days.

    If you want it anatomically- like with the hymen and such? You're a virgin for a long time. Your hymen never breaks, nor does it "pop" or any of that bullsh*t. In fact if it does tear it can be very serious and it will repair itself in a matter of days. Eventually, after a lot of sex, it will wear away so there, according to that logic you'll be a virgin for a long time yet.

    If you want the religious definition? Jeez that's tough, some say a blow job will do it, some say only penis and vagina sex will do it, some say anal sex will do it. Mostly it's whatever you feel is right.

    What's most important is that you think ahead and really think about how you're going to feel after you do something, if you're going to be questioning yourself or feeling bad about yourself then don't do it, just wait. It's not that important. Always treat yourself right and feel proud about who you are, virgin or not you're a strong, beautiful woman who deserves all the best in love and life, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

  • Good question! If your hymen has not been broken than you're still a virgin. The hymen can be broken even with your own fingers. I read a book that back in the days a girl is considered a virgen if she has not "inserted" her own fingers or entered any instrument (as a dildo) in her vagina. So, as long as you have not broken your hymen than you're still a virgen, otherwise technically you're not.

    • Good question? Really?

    • How is this a good question?

  • You haven't have sex, so you're still a virgin. That's all that there is to it; you're hymen can break during PE class, but you're still gonna be a virgin until the day you have sex with someone.

    • He used his fingers, not his penis - and that's how sex is made between a man and a woman. So, you're a virgin. It's AFTER he's put his penis inside your vagina that you'll no longer be.

Most Helpful Guys

  • The two most common definitions of female virginity are:

    - hymen remains intact

    - penis has never entered vagina

    Assuming his fingering hasn't ruptured your hymen, you would still meet both of these tests.

    Obviously, different people have different definitions, and if, say, you were a lesbian, you might have valid reasons for using a different definition. In your case, though, it's pretty straight-forward. Third Base is not a Home Run.

    • Yes, still a virgin.

  • Virginity is not really a physical state. It is a condition of experience. Of not having had penis-penetrative sex. Fingers, a dildo, tampon dispenser, tongue, cucumber, vibrator or a hairbrush do not take virginity. However, anal intercourse does.

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  • Yes you're still a virgin, that is just masturbation. When you have sex, either with a man or a woman, that's when you can say you're no longer a virgin.

    • Yes you're still a virgin.

  • You're a virgin until you have a penis inside of you.

    • So lesbians never lose their virginity? ^^'

    • Historically, a virgin was defined as a girl who hadn't had her hymen broken by a guy. So in a way, yeah.

  • Of course you still are. Until you have full sex.

  • I wish someone would admit to rating this question 5 stars previously. I rate it one and have to say you are still a virgin fool. You ask this seriously? If so you will not be ready for sex for another 10 or so years.

    • Of course you changed the question a little. Shut up and stop asking these questions troll.

    • maybe it was 5 stars for stupidity? i gave it one since its been asked a billion times

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    how about we just say everybody can be a virgin just as long as you think you are and say you are. hopefully this is the last time this question will be asked.