It's definitely not the girl's fault. You said he came very heavily 8 hours prior but you didn't say how long all that took. So it's hard to compare times. It's hard for a girl to make a mistake giving a hj unless she does everything totally wrong. He should have came in more like 10 minutes or less if he was wanting one. Whatever you did the night before to turn him on so much you should incorporate in your next hj and see how that goes. Actually, he should have felt pretty good that next morning because of what you did the night before (almost still feeling it yet!) and that should have caused him to come much sooner than usual. It's hard to say what was on him mind right then to delay him, but you should ask him what took him so long.
The night before, our little interlude took about 35 min+, I'd say...it seems to always take him a while to come, but I've feel uncomfortable asking if the time is unusual. He's my 1st and I don't know if I'm just underestimating. But yes, it feels like it always takes a while...he joked later that "it felt great," but he just "couldn't come to his senses..." (quite the comedian). I just feel like I'm not doing my job if I bring him to the brink but he has to go finish himself. :(
Wow did you say go and finish himself?! I'm positive you're doing your job if you're bringing him to brink but he just can't seem to finish right then, so don't feel bad about that part. Some people do have lower matabolism than others. Since he said it felt great that means the same as "you did great!" so be proud of that. Both 35 minutes or 15-20 minutes is longer than usual since getting a hj is a big turn on. Maybe he masturbates too much. Try giving him one when he least expects.
Thanks so much-- I feel much better about it all, and I'll definitely take your advice for the surprise one. :) You rock!
Put more pressure. From my experience with girls they tend to be very light on the dick during a BJ, us guys can take the pressure. I have had handjobs that have lasted 20min. but if a girl is being a little rougher, I could finish within 5 min. That's not to say I won't enjoy the 20min technique, just my Girlfriend might get tired. So it's really up to the technique.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!that seems like a longtime for a hand job , as usually a guy isn't erect for that long I'd say . so for some reason it took you a little long to do this , he likely enjoyed it if nothing else as I know I would
Most guys would not have a problem from coming from a handjob.
Unless the girl is not holding him hard enough or right. (Not blaming you!)
Just watch some skilled women giving handjobs in porn. They have a pretty good idea of how to charge up a guy.
Because I started masturbating way before I got access to regular sex, I often (and still do) find it easier from coming from a handjob than from vaginal sex!
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