If a guy masturbates while fantasizing about a crush, do his feelings grow deeper for her?

Basically will a guy grow more emotionally attached to a particular girl the more he fantasizes about her while masturbating? Or does that not affect a guy's feelings for a girl?
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  • I'm pretty sure he will, because that energy released during masturbation gives power to whatever thoughts he associates that feeling with. In this case he is associating his crush with pleasure and happiness only on a more powerful level. This of course will feed his desire to be with that girl. It doesn't make him a bad person though, it just means he is very sexually attracted to that person, but I advise that masturbating about her will not lessen his emotional attachment for her, but only feed it. It's best to masturbate with a clear mind and only feeling the sensation. Best for mental/emotional health that is.

  • depending on how strongly he crushes over her, because he is activating the feel good gland in the brain which eventually he will get feelings for her every time he sees her, but this is a false emotion, because he only feels this way because of his fantasy, which can be dangerous because she may be different in life than she is in his fantasy,x

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  • Masturbating has no affect, whatsoever, on our feelings towards a girl. A guys feelings may end up leading him to masturbate to his crush, but masturbating to his crush in and of itself will not create a deeper feelings towards said girl.

  • good question!

  • His sexual feelings for her...yes, maybe. His emotional feelings for her...no, not necessarily.

    • agreed

  • Uh...no, next question.

  • not at all. a guys' sexual desires literally become temporary nonexistent after they finish masturbating. same goes for sex... after I finish having sex I literally just lose all sex drive for a little bit

  • No effect,

  • I don't think it makes me like the girl even more than I already do. The feelings stay the same.

  • I don't think so.