If a guy only talks about sex , ALL THE TIME ?

Does that mean the guy isn't serious about me . This guy I met a couple of times said he likes me and we've been chatting on Facebook but I realized that 98% of the times he's talking to me when he is horny and is speaking in very sexual language . I like him , but I'm worried that he just wants to get in my pants , that he doesn't really like me as a person So what does it mean if a guy is very BLUNTLY sexual with you , don't state the obvious I KNOW he wants me , he has mentioned that a few times , but does it mean that that's all he wants ? how to know if a guy ONLY wants sex Extra Info : Im turning 18 in 2 weeks :D , he is 20 and is in navy school ( so he is surrounded by mostly males all the time , so I get his frustration sexually )
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Btw I did mention that I'm a virgin and I'm not planning and losing it until I fall in love and untill I get over some of of my issues whhich is probably in like my mid twenties ( I'm not rushing ) So I'm confused about him talking to me in a sexual manner when he knows he is not going to get some
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  • He's maybe just- well, as you say, frustrated. Maybe not all that experienced with girls, whatever. He might like you, and because you like him back and give and forgive his very frequent sexual advancements, he's probably taking whatever he can get. I don't think his interest in you is only sexual, but it's definitely a big part. If it concerns you, you could ask him to tone down but in a way that doesn't seem like you don't like it (assuming you do like it?). Either way, nah, assume good faith, always. It doesn't mean he's only in it for sex.

    This shows itself best when you have a serious issue. When you talk to him about something serious, if he's only devoted to you sexually he'll probably spin some quick bullsh*t and try and route it back to sex, or leave. If there's more, he'll stay and talk about that until you get it totally out of your system. A person shows themselves through these types of actions and only then will you know for sure. Seriousness will come between you eventually, until then I'd say just kick it and enjoy the sex.

  • I like talking about sex, but that certainly isn't all I can talk about. At best he is shallow, and at worse that's all he wants from you.

    It sounds like he has only one thing on his mind, and he is making that clear to you. Sorry.

    • yeah :( , its good that I haven't done anything with him

    • Maybe he would like to cyber?

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  • Ive been in that situation before. I would say yes, most of the time they definitely are looking for sex. Does he ask about you as a person or your hobbies or interests? Or just about sex? if just sex then tread carefully /

    • Just sex , I guess he's not really into me

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  • just f*** him off .

  • "but does it mean that that's all he wants ?"

    Yeah. For now, anyway.

    If that need was satisfied, and he hung up, you'd know for sure.

    If that need was satisfied, and he hung around to chat about your life and future, then you'd know too.