If a guy talks about sex early in the relationship does that mean he's after sex?

If a guy talks about sex early in the relationship, does that mean he's after sex? This guy met talked about sex with me during our second encounter. He was telling me about he's preferences and what he expects. Do you think he's only after sex?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Talking about sex to early can be a real turn off to some girls be for you are real in to a relationship if a guy what to be in a real relationship with a girl he may what to hold off on talking about sex for a bit and fill her out on it first and see what she thinks the right time to bring it up some guy and some girl like to get it out in the open right off so the person that they are dating know what to expect and how like be for they are going to have sex for the first time in the relationship by doing this both party,s know that it may take some time.

  • It could really go both ways. I talked to my wifey about sex early in the relationship cause we wanted to know about each others's history and stuff, that didn't mean I wanted to have sex with her or expected it for that matter. But if it sounded like he was planning on having sex soon then yeah he probably wants it. Just talk about it again to clear it up or something.

Most Helpful Girls

  • 90% chance he's only after sex. it's only your 2nd encounter, why isn't he talking about other subjects that would allow him to bond with you and get to know you as a person? he's probably MAINLY after sex. if you want to see if he'll still be up for more than sex, let him know what you expect (to be with a guy you're committed to) and make it clear you're relationship oriented. how he responds to that is if you knokw what he really wants. also some guys test girls early on to see if they give in easily or make him wait.

  • Not nescessarily, My boyfriend was like that the first day we dated he asked me when are w going to do it and we have been together for 2years and he is my best friend. You should ask him his intentions

  • What he expects? If a guy said that to me that early on I'd think he is assuming far too much and that would be a warning flag to me and would turn me off

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  • It means he's after sex, but not necessarily *only* after sex. I'm not a celibate, so dating celibates would be a waste of everyone's time.

    I solve these things by having the sex talk early. It doesn't have to be explicit, the simple "what are you into" reveals a lot. If she has no sex life and wants none, while I have a lively, creative sex life that I mean to keep, then it's best that things end quickly.

  • Either he's excited, or he's screening.

    By screening I mean, he's ended up with girls who didn't want to have sex, and he's trying to not go down that path again.

    Certainly he wants sex. Does he want only sex? You could try asking him what he's looking for.

  • I say no he's not only after sex. I think it means its important to him, and to be honest I still think sex is an important part of a relationship. Why not talk about it and get it out on the table to see how you both feel about sex, before getting into a long relationship and then it ends because your both not happy sexually.

  • Hes def after it, but it don't mean that's all he's after

  • Not necessarily. He might just believe in being up front, and he doesn't want to waste time dating someone who is not sexually compatible with him.