If in a relationship, do you still use condoms?

If you are in a relationship and both people are clean, monogamous, and on other birth control do you still use condoms. Just a random question wondering if anybody in that sitch does?
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  • No I don't use condoms because she's on the pill and the whole point of her being on the pill is so we don't have to use condoms. If she didn't want to be on the pill for any reason I would use a condom but since she insists on being on the pill I say no condoms because honestly I hate them and they take half the sensation out of sex. I know being on the pill effects girl's hormones and thinking so if she wanted off the pill I would use a condom out of respect for her but like I said they take the sensation out of sex.

  • Nope, my girlfriend doesn't like condoms, and neither do I. She takes the pill, and I pull out 95% of the time. If she got pregnant, then it's just our luck, I'll love her and her child forever.

    • Oh and we're both loyal and std free. :)

    • That's sweet :)

    • Thanks. (:

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  • My dude and I don't. And our situation is just like you describe. I'm on the pill, and we're monogamous and have both tested clean. I just see no reason for us to use them. I also have cysts on my ovaries, making for really inconsistent periods [and therefore ovulation], so it would likely be more difficult for me to conceive anyway. We're pretty comfortable with just the pill.

    • yeah like I said in a comment I would rather take my 1% chance for how much better it feels. plus only in a serious relatinship not a fling. never a fling.

  • I still do, I don't feel like I am ready for a kid now, so that condom is just that extra layer of protection. I will try it without eventually, but not right now. I just feel safer with one :P Plus who knows what people will do, if a guy ever cheats on me, I would be a heck of a lot safer :P

  • ALWAYS. No matter how sure you think you are, someone can always stray. I like not having HIV so I make them ALWAYS use protection or no sex. You know how many girls say, " I know for a fact he isn't cheating!" Then magically get HIV...yeah, keep tellin yourself he wasn't cheating.

    • yeah but condoms aren't that great at preventing hiv or std's

    • lol, like no protection is? I slept with a guy that later told me he had HIV and it was because of that condom I am Negative. F***ing piece of sh*t LIED and he was a Registered Nurse. So, like I said, KEEP TELLIN YOURSELF bullsh*t excuses.

    • yep knew this would come up so here is a link from the guttmacher institute on the National Institute Of Health Data that they did basically it helps but not perfect or great. Plus they show better rates of decreasing the chance for MEN and not women since we tear and that's how we get stuff more easily.

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  • My boyfriend and I are clean, monogamous, and on the pill, so no, I don't use condoms. But if I felt like I hadn't been taking my pills consistently enough in the last month, I'd use added protection.

    • definetly like if I forget like two in a row he better wrap it for the next however long till the next pack just to be safe lol

  • I've eventually stopped using condoms in pretty much all of my long term relationships to date.. :o)

    • me too.

    • I've never used them in any of my relationships either!

  • Why wouldn't anyone? You don't want the girl pregnant... oye people who think a relationship or even marriage means don't use a condom lol. It's safer in general. Even if they are on the pill.

  • Nope married 16 years & her tubes are cut and burnt...have no plans to ever use a condom for the rest of my life...

  • Typically we talk about it and usually agree to dump the condoms in a long-term relationship. If she is on birth control or wants to get on it. Honestly, most of the time I've been asked :)

  • Yes, I would if I ever happened to be in such a relationship.

  • I don't wear condoms because I'm too used to the bare skin on skin sensations when having sex. It feels far more intimate and cumfortable without having a barrier in the way! 😉 👅 💧 🍌

  • yes of course. condoms are a must

  • No, me & my guy have never used them simply because of the fact that he can't get me pregnant...like ever. And I really am being serious. This isn't some BS that I just made up or that he told me so that I'd have sex with him. We've been together for about a year & almost 6 months...I would have been pregnant a long time ago & had a kid by now. But no, we don't ever use them...never have either.

  • No birth control works 100%, so if you don't want to get pregnant why wouldn't you do everything you can to prevent that possibility. Plus, people sometimes have std's but don't have symptoms so they might not know they aren't clean.

    • hence why I said clean as in tested only a stupid person would not use condoms without proof of testing.

    • 97% not 100 sorry to burst your bubble but as health teachers say "only abstinence is 100%" effective

    • well yes but if you were with someone in a relationship why would you worry about stds if you trust them. Also even using both combined are not 100% and for the difference it makes I will take my 1% chance with the pill that I take religiously at the same time everyday ]

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