For some women, as long as she's satisfied - it's okay. There are times when it can be disappointing, but then there are times when it's fine, especially since you take care of her before getting off yourself. It depends on what she wants ...
I'm wondering if it's because you're so aroused by satisfying her first that you can't control yourself when it comes to intercourse. Have you thought of starting with penetration, then stopping and moving to "satisfying" her then continuing when she's done? Or have an orgasm yourself before going down on her - with masturbation or a blow job. Second rounds usually last longer than the first. And don't pound her, try controlling your strokes. Long, slow, and controlled.
Sometimes using a condom will also dull the sensations and allow you to last longer.
Hopefully with practice it will work out the way you want.
Good luck.
Well I've dated a guy who used to always come during foreplay which was a huge turn off for me. Mostly because if I'm really horny, even if he's going down on me and using his fingers, sometimes I just WANT THE D! By the third time we had sex, I just told him that I would not be giving him a BJ because he's going to come before we even get to have sex. I still barely got any. I was over it. Stopped seeing him a few days later. It just made me way too frustrated to even stick around.
well, my man comes too fast too, honestly I'm dissapointed most of the time, my suggestion is go slow and even stop if you have to.. that's wut we do
Hat about if he was to bring you to orgasm first and then f***? That's whhat I do 95% of the time. My partner says it doesn't bother her but I think that she may feeel like you. Do you tell your partner how yo feel?
Al slowing down doesn't help :(
I always get slammed for this answer, and I have no idea why. But, here goes. This is the best advice I can give someone who has problems with ejaculating too soon:
If this is a big problem for you and your girlfriend, it can cause tension in a relationship. However modern medicine does solve this little problem, most antidepressant meds (SSRIs) have a wonderful little side effect for guys who have a problem with over stimulation. SSRIs will help prolong ejaculation. You can talk to your doctor about the problem, but you have to be honest with the doctor about why you want to try medication. If you're not honest about the problem, the doctor will not be able to prescribe the best treatment. This is nothing to be ashamed of, and I promise you want be the Doc's first patient to have this problem.
1-2minutes is too soon,i am man,i strongly believe the girl will be very much disappointed unless she is not fond of intercourse.
I think 10-20 minutes is ideal for majority of girls. more than 20 minutes will slowly become frustration for girls because at this point many girls start to wonder, am I not attractive for him to come?
You need to learn to control your urge,after you humping for 1 minute and you feel like to shoot,can you just stop and get out of her hole? after excercising 10-20 times of PC muscles then slide in again.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You can do exercises that will will give the the ability to hold off. Just before you are going to come, pull out and grab just under the head of your penis and squeeze it till the feeling fades. While doing this finger her, or give her head, repeat to she has had enough, and eventually you will get stronger and will be able to hold it off for longer.
Yes that is enough I'm sure you girlfriend is happy
Thank you :)
I have the opposite of what you have and have which is trouble cumming or failing to cum at all after sex. I wish I had your problem
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