If a penis slips out during sex, does that mean it's small?

When I lost my virginity his penis slipped out quite a bit. Is that normal? or was he small? the penetration still hurt me, and he said I was really tight so I don't think it was from me being loose.
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  • It's normal and common and happens to everyone. You see it in p*rn constantly.

    In a follow-up comment, you noted that it mainly happned during Doggystyle. That's very common with a new partner, when you and her don't have your rhythms synchronized. As you get more experience with each other, you will get in the right rhythm and it will happen much less.

    It has nothing to do with the size of either of you.

  • It simply means he was very inexperienced. He has not had sex enough to know how long a stroke he can make. :) There is no problem with you. He will get better quickly with a little experience.

    • he was not inexperienced... he's had lots of sex.

    • Lots of sexual experience, but hasn't learned yet how long his d*** is? OK

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  • i think this is a question of technique, not dimensions. you two are learning. it just means you are pulling apart (he is pulling out) too far if that makes sense. you two will resolve it with time and practice. ;)

    nothing to worry about though it can be awkward. just give it time and have fun!

    • hes not my boyfriend, he just used me! :( I don't think it was inexperience from him, he's a big player and probably had loads of sex!

  • What's bad is when it happens when they are going furiously at it and it hits the pubic bone at speed on the way back in and bends in half and the guy is moaning, and not from pleasure.

  • It happens regularly regardless the size of you or the penis! Positions make a difference, strokes etc. Not to worry you will see a lot more of this in your sex life.

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  • It's completely normal and sometimes it just happens. Size CAN be a contributing factor, but it's something that happens regardless of size.

  • No it just means that he was making longer thrusts. Even huge p*rn stars can slip out.

    • it only happend when he put it in from behind, like doggy. Is that common?

  • No, it means you're big...

    Or seriously it happens. Even with a giant dong and a wee girl it can happen.

  • Mainly attributed to inexperience.

  • It's pretty normal, and happens to most guys, especially those who are inexperienced. It has little to do with size.

  • Message me this happened to me x

  • It's more likely to happen to small guys, but it doesn't mean he *is small*. It just means he moved further on the back pump than how long his d*** was. The larger your penis the larger you can pump, until there's no more space left in her... :P

  • it all happen specially if you don't know the technique..maybe he pulled it out that far or maybe he's penis is not that hard.it doesn't matter if his penis is long or short..the question is why does it slipped out..hope this would help you.

  • It can very well be, but it is also because of the positions used and how fast/hard the fucking is.

  • If his **** is also tight then it should not occurred but it is very much possible that initially penis slipped out but after going inside the **** he can make sex in rhythm. Otherwise his **** is not so hard and slipped out.

    • Girl asking has a different thing going on since was her first time. What this guy explains does happen. happened to me last night couldn't make sex rhythm and I'm average in length and girth. Same girl this didn't happen. No judgement I'm clarifying

  • it just means you're really wet and probably going fast

  • it just means he pulled out abit to far when he was thrusting lol be thankful he was probably going at it hard to please you!

  • imagine if the guy inserts his p*nis in the ass instead of the vagina then instead of vaginal it would be anal.hahaha.coz Guys are Smart.

  • Yes it happens and it's normal. when he's thrusting, he probably pulls out too far and it just slips out. it easily happens and it's easily fixed - stick it back in!

    • Hell yeah !

  • No, it means you have a big vagina.

    • I don't see how I have a big vagina, I don't even use tampons because they feel uncomfortable and I've only had sex once, never had a baby & I'm a petite person in general.

  • no, it happens.

    • so it's normal?

    • totally normal. it can happen with all sizes.