If I found out that my girlfriend is a real virgin, I will get mad definitely - out of joy for getting a chance to 'pop her Cherry'. It will be a great thing for me. I am from India and being virgin is considered good for both – girl and boy, ethically and religiously till marriage. The problem comes if the boy is highly orthodox and conservative and the girl is not virgin. Most boys do not doubt the girl if she do not bleed on their first time after marriage, and take it granted thinking that girl must be masturbating as he was before getting married. Under 18 and a virgin is not a problem at all. If you are a virgin, most guys around the world would consider it a privileged as he can get the chance of ‘popping your cherry’. That thing is very precious to all girls and a greatest gift for a boy. Everyone has a first time – not only for sex, for everything. For starting a family and producing babies, love, trust and respect for each other is the only condition. I think you will be better off without him. You might have better life partner very soon.
Yes I'm Hindu too I understand. :)
I wouldn't, because I'm one too. Everyone has a first time. No girlfriend or boyfriend should be mad to find out his/her significant other was a virgin, because if there is love, then the couple should be able to work through things. Trust and respect will prevent that kind of disrespect and inconsideracy.
I think being a virgin is a really sacred thing. You won't be like that forever, but still, no boyfriend that gets enraged is caring or considerate, in my opinion.
He was pissed? OMG I wouldn't even date such a dumb*ss. Most guys would consider it to be a priviledge as who knows he can get the chance of poppin' your cherry. That thing is precious to us and honey believe me if he doesn't like it I think you are better off without him.
He's pissed? Dump. Him. Now. If he actually cares about you he should be fine with it, maybe even flattered. When I told my boyfriend, he was surprised but then he was excited to be my teacher.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Under 18 and a virgin I don't see any problem with unless he is afraid of not getting down your pants or something. I'd like to think a guy would be pissed if, hypothetically, he found out you screwed all his friends or something.
I basically told him I don't do that... It's against my moral code.
He probably was hoping you were easy sex.
The weird thing is, I'm sure he didn't... I know that's what it seems like. The part I left out is I flipped out when he asked me over to have sex, and he probably got pissed over that.
Am I reading this correctly? Your a virgin and he's mad? That can't be right
We almost broke up over it...
He sounds like an idiot, I would be overjoyed if my girlfriend was a virgin
nope. not in your age group. your boyfriend sounds like a d***!
He's greatly overreacting. He and his primitive jealous brain should go back to the 1500's.
Maybe he's tryin to confuse you a little , maybe he wants to show that he really doesn't care , but he actually cares alot!
What do you mean? I know he really cares about me. Even though it doesn't seem like it from this, I know he does from how he treated me when we were friends.
what did he threat you with ? were both the same age ( I think ? ) I mean like he cares tht your a virgin but doesn't wanna tell you that or show it . some guys like my age like virgins because that's the age for it!
He's almost 19, I just turned 17... He was animately upset, didn't hold anything back...
He sounds like a real jackass and no
Not at all.
Why lie to say?
Thats ridiculous.
Such a d***, I wouldn't be pissed even on the rate of -100 to -99.9
no I'd be happy because I'm a virgin also . I think that's how it should be virgin vs virgin and non vs non
No, why would he be pissed? The only reason I can think of is that he started dating you because he heard rumors of you putting out easily and now that's not going to happen. What else could it be, especially in your age range?
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