If you like big butts but have a girl with a small one?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I resently foind out my boyfriend likes big butts but I have a small butt... Would that bother you guys? Or it doesn't matter?

[Travesty]

I think a lot of people have what they would consider "ideal" in everything about a partner, but it's not like it's a deal breaker if someone doesn't hit every mark. Almost no one is that lucky, and in fact, I think a lot of people find their preferences change when they find someone they really like. Some people might prefer blond hair, then fall in love with a person with brown hair and find that preference changing.

So basically, don't worry if there's a preference box that you don't check. If you're already in a relationship, you checked enough for him to want to be with you, so he's obviously OK with it.

[TurbulentDan12]

He's your boyfriend he's already with you what does it matter?

I personally don't like "big butts". Normal sized ones or a little bit bigger are best in my eyes. A girl with a flat butt would be less attractive to me, but she still could have other parts that make her attractive.

[cun7n1nja]

My boyfriend is often attracted to bigger butts and breasts than what I have. But he loves mine as well even though they're smaller and often says they're 'perfect'. I tend to like darker hair on guys, but my boyfriend is a redhead, that doesn't mean I would prefer him with darker hair. I like him how he is because he's HIM. Likewise, him liking bigger butts doesn't prevent him from liking my smaller one, and he likes ME and everything I have. I wouldn't worry too much. =]

[NoOneListens21]

If he doesn't have a problem with it and you don't either then it shouldn't matter. He likes you and he's staying and because of your butt. That should be the most important. Not every who you date will have everything you like but when you do find someone who is worth something to you then everythin' else doesn't matter.

[PinkPenguin]

My guess would be that if he likes big butts, and you don't have one, you must be pretty awesome in another area. Could be something physical, or it could be your personality. Maybe you have sexy thighs? A very cute face? Perfect boobs? Nice tummy or back? Funny and loving personality? Could by anything.

[Chauncy2]

People can be attracted to all different types of body types. If he's going out with you he's most likely attracted to you. I wouldn't worry about it.

[peace-love-couture]

You do know guys can like more than one type of thing right? Life isn't so black and white

Just because I love redheaded guys doesn't mean I DON'T like brunettes or blondes

[Asplode]

Wouldn't bother me much. I mean, lots of guys have their ideal girl, but that doesn't mean they only date girls who match that profile. I tend to like slimmer girls, yet my last was a bit heavier, and I thought she was sexy as hell.

[kheserthorpe]

I'd keep trying to inflate it.

[peace-love-couture]

I'm sure that'll make her feel better

[armyguy176]

my last girlfriend had small boobs, I wasn't happy about it, but she had a nice ass and she put out

[G_GTom]

Clear and to the point. We need more answers like this.

[PoeticNinja]

It would bother me. I would tell him to go find a girl with a huge ass..

[G-Daz]

I wouldn't be dating your ass, I like ass but I also like boobs but it doesn't mean I require it to like a girl

[taster]

All depends on the guy..I like small butts and it would bother me to be with a female with a big butt...but that has absolutely nothing to do with what other guys think..:S

[G_GTom]

Of course it's going to matter. You can't have a preference for something that doesn't matter, but, apparently, it's not a deal breaker for him. Is that enough for you?

[Babyjayboo]

I think, if someone is so superficial and narrowminded, they should stick to their set preferences. That safes everyone a lot of pain in the ass. If a guy really only likes big butt, he can not date someone without. Because one day it will come out abd he runs after the big butt he has tattooed on his stoopid brain. Just wait guys, until you find the "perfect" match to your ideals. Dont date other girls as a substitute. Very unfair and disrespectful!!

[jacquesvol]

There are more important things in a girl than her butt.

[kheserthorpe]

really?

[dawnfang]

Everyone has there preferences but that doesn't mean they stick to only following them. I prefer red heads, doesn't mean I'm only going to date red headed women. Plus there is more to a girl physically and more importantly personality wise then just butt size.

[Babyjayboo]

But you should only date red heads if that is your ultimate perfect dream. Pls. Dont date anyone that does not meet your criteria. It is disrespectful to see someone as the substitute, before you finally find that "perfect" version of your ideal. Stop doing that guys.

[Anonymous]

Your butt isn't everything. Maybe your boyfriend likes, I don't know...your personality? your other physical features? Why would he concentrate on the ONE thing you don't have when he could focus on everything you do have to offer?

[Anonymous]

As long as you have a butt. X) It doesn't matter so much to me if you have small parts, butts or bewbs because you don't need huge ones to be pretty of either category. Of course it's appealing in its own way but I'd much rather take a pretty face and a wonderful personality.