If your boyfriend didn't like being naked or shirtless around you?

[Anonymous]

what would you girls think if your boyfriend didn't like being naked or shirtless around you? or didn't change in front of you? What would you think of him?

[cun7n1nja]

I'd think it a bit odd, especially if we'd been together more than a couple months. I'd think he wasn't comfortable with me and that would kind of eat away at me. If we're at the point of having sex, I'd think we could be naked together in nonsexual situations, like changing or showering or whatever it may be. Though I'm thinking in terms of living together I guess, because I live with my boyfriend and I would be pretty upset if he still had that kind of issue around me. The general public, sure, but not someone he cares intimately for and is into sexually. I have my own insecurities, I'm not going to make anyone else feel like s.hit about theirs.

[cun7n1nja]

I should add that I'd do everything possible to put his mind at ease and help him feel comfortable, make sure he knows I'm very attracted to him and care for him. But if it's an issue that nothing short of therapy will help, then we probably wouldn't be very compatible if he refused to even try to work on it. If he was making progress, I'd make sure he knew I was proud of his efforts and he was doing well.

[Serengeti]

A lot of people have problems like that where they don't undress in front of there partners or have sex with the lights on etc he seems insecure, wha you must do is shower him with affection and let him know you love him and that there is nothing wrong with him etc

[May31]

I'd think that he wasn't comfortable with his body

[katiesmuff]

I'd say he would have a hard time staying compatable with me as nude beaches, nude pool and hot tub fun and nude around the house are the norm for me

[Girlygirl120]

Everyone has different comfort level and some people just do not like people to look at them like that but remember every girl is different too some will not mind it and others well they will

if you are uncomfortable being naked in front of your significant other then figure out why and change it

[stillagoodgirl]

Id think he's insecure

[99PROBLEMS]

Strange. Id think he doesn't trust me ans doesn't feel comfortable around me. It would make me feel bad.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he cheated and think I can tell so he's covering up

[Anonymous]

Id think he was molested in the past

[Anonymous]

i would think he maybe had a body insecurity which is totally normal and very common( amongst girls especially). since I can relate to the way he feels, I would empathy toward him and want to make him feel secure around me. I would give him lots of extra love ;D but also I would respect him if he didint want to change in front of me.

[Anonymous]

that's fine, unless if we had sex or showered together and he had clothes on. then that seems a tad weird.