I'd be very hesitant to do so, if only because rape is a word that no normal man likes to hear mentioned. That's not to say I wouldn't do it, but it would have to be discussed in advance. That being said, I've acted this out before and it was intense, plus the girls have loved it. I made one condition that many people go against.
No safe word.
Why you ask?
I made my case very clear to these girls, as there can be no room for confusion. The only way we would engage in this "rape" is if she trusts me completely. That means knowing my own strength, looking her in the eyes and making her repeat "this is what I want and I trust you without reservation".
Ladies, if you think a "safe word" is going to protect you, that means you don't trust your man 100%. If he really is an evil man (not likely, he's in a relationship with you, right?), do you think saying "please stop" or "banana" will convince someone who intends to do you harm? The hottest role-plays I've done of this is because the girls surrendered totally and trusted that I would never force that would hurt them permanently.
One loved it so much afterward she said that feeling so powerless made her love me even more, especially because I made her surrender with no safe words before we started. By the time we were "done", she was in my arms crying sweet tears of submission and hugging me tight. Love with that kind of trust can overwhelm a woman. It was one of the most passionate moments of my life.
But what if you accidently WERE hurting her? Without a safe word, there's no way of knowing to stop.
What you described is all very..very hot, but for me the safeword is important because its not necessarily a matter of him deliberately wanting to hurt me, but if it does begin to hurt or if he gets carried away and I need to take a break, not because I think he is going to take advantage of my fantasy to intentionally because me harm. But this does sound really great all that said
If you've ever wrestled with your girl outside of the bedroom, you'll know. Just don't choke her too much, you that's about the only part on a girl's body that can't handle too much. We all need wind in our pipes. I've pulled this off with four different girls, nobody has ended up in the ER. Once again, my method isn't for everyone, but only for those who really know what their doing. Start with a safeword if you must, but considering it without adds a whole new level of excitement.
Not if she uses the word "rape" at all. There's nothing wrong with the way you described it, there's just no need to use the word rape, because it shouldn't be in any way associated with enjoyable sex. They're opposites, in my opinion.
Yeah, I would use a safe word. Not because I think I'd let myself hurt her, but just in case she's suddenly uncomfortable with it or it's not fun for her anymore.
The word "rape" might be a boner killer to a good many men. For one, one in 7 guys has been molested as a child, studies say. For two, dominance still implies that the girl is dying for you to give her sex, not that you are unwanted and undesirable. You're playing, but you still know that she is turned on and excited by you. Whereas, actual rape is more about power and hurting someone. Not too many people are turned on by the thought of damaging someone, but many may be turned on by the idea of being so sexually alluring that the other person is rendered unable to thwart their advances.
I'd go with a safe word, personally. One of the weird things about delivering physical force is that you aren't always sure how it feels for the other person. It's like play fighting when you're a kid ... sometimes you accidentally slug someone too hard and then you both feel bad about it.
"[O]ne in 7 guys has been molested as a child, studies say." Really? I have trouble believing that. Were those studies conducted at a priests' convention?
I don't know bout the word 'rape' but my boyfriend doesn't seem to mind much when I ask him to dominate me
don't use the word rape or that might freak him out. say you want to be dominated
I agree, I mean rape for one is not a good thing, and 2 it would just sound weird if some asked you to do it.
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If she asked you to, then would it still classify as that? I mean...
Not if it involves the word rape...dominate ya for sure.. not rape
Hehe I'd be down, sounds like fun.
just go for it :D play rape is hot
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