Im nervous about getting fingered, advice?

I know It's going to happen, I feel pathetic because I'm 18 and have a boyfriend. But I'm just worried if I don't have an orgasm should I fake it? and how long after? and will he know I'm faking? I just don't want to be awkward but I don't know I'm such a loser literally. Don't judge
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  • Don't fake it - what would be the point?

    All it would mean is that, the next time he fingers you, and the time after that and so on, you're going to have to fake it again, or he's going to be seriously confused about why he can't get you to orgasm again.

    Instead of faking it, show him what feels good. If he's touching you, but nit in places that stimulate you the most, show him what to do. I know any guy I've been with before has been more than happy when I've showed him exactly what I like. All it takes is moving his hand slightly. He'll want to make you feel good - not make you fake feeling good.

  • I think you're overthinking it and feeling alittle codependent not wanting to hurt his feelings in case he can't give you an orgasm. He'll just be happy to be in your pants honestly(can I get an Amen from the guys?) I think you're putting too much pressure on yourself to put on a show for him just let whatever happens happen. It should be something that happens in the heat of passion because you're both turned on not something you should be dreading and trying to figure out how to fake an orgasm in case you don't have one. Try to relax and look forward to it, it's enjoyable whether you orgasm or not.

  • awe girl! I was in the same place as you 3 months ago... like exactly. one night I just decided to go for it. it felt realllyyy nice but, he DID pop my cherry and was a little rough. even tho I liked it. also I didn't orgasm the first time either.. either way it felt amazing and I'm glad I did it. you just gottta let lose and non worry about it so much!

Most Helpful Guys

  • You're not expected to have an orgasm from fingering. If you have one, great, if not, you're completely normal.

    Do not fake orgasms. Ever.

  • You don't have to fake it for fingering... when it stops feeling nice, just tell him or her to stop.

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  • Don't worry about it, and don't fake it. Relax and enjoy it.

  • u pathetic because you haven't been fingered yet and your 18? that's not pathetic. that's good

  • Don't fake it. How would you feel if a guy was faking moaning when your giving him a bad handjob?