In having sex there are no limits? or there should be limits?

[vvaseem]

1. Really I don't want to put that in her ass , yaaakk , that whole is meant for something else ;) , plus she's gonna hurt yeah what you guys and girls think about this ? 2. I don't want to give her in the mouth , its not a toothbrush , not a lolly pop not meant for putting in the mouth , a mouth is worth eating fresh fruits, good food, blah blah , and girls do you really like/love to take it in those places biologically ? why not treat your wife the love way , in dim lights, limited poses, restricted to vagina only , I personally like this way :) give your opinion ...

[selfishstars]

I find this question to be a little ridiculous.

1. I enjoy anal sex. It doesn't have to hurt, in fact, it can be extremely pleasurable. Take your time, relax, use lots of lube, choose a comfortable position.

2. I adore giving oral sex. Its a lot of fun, it's sexy, and I enjoy the pleasure it brings to my partner.

I don't believe that any act is degrading in itself, but rather in your intentions behind it. If you're doing it because both you and your partner enjoy it and you're coming from a positive and loving space, then it is "treating your wife in a loving way" (or at least, treating your partner in a respectful way).

Why would I want to have sex in dim lights? I like to see my partner when we're being intimate.

Why would I want to limit positions? Its fun trying out different ones and finding the hottest and most pleasurable ones!

Why restrict sexual activity to penis-in-vagina sex, when there's tons of other fun, exciting, and pleasurable things to explore?

It's certainly okay to have limits. In fact, I don't think anyone should so anything they don't feel comfortable with. But please don't assume that there's anything wrong or "unloving" about liking to explore and try things other than just penis-in-vagina sex in missionary position with the lights down low.

[mealltime]

Good question dude!

I understand what you mean, but take your girlfriend out of the picture: in your head, in your fantasies, as a human, I can't believe you don't imagine other positions or foreplay happening. which means... she probably imagines some of it too. So... the beauty of it, is when you talk about these things and decide to explore eachother's bodies, not in a perverted way, but in a romantic exciting way: the goal, to perfect the art of pleasing each other. You will never know what you like best, if you haven't tried other stuff.

However, I agree with you, somethings' can be degrading to the girl, if she does them just to please him or if she feels ashamed of it somehow or even worse if he doesn't treat her like she wants to be treated before during and after . but with enough trust, comfortability and curiosity (AND LOVE) I think there are no limits, whatsoever

[vvaseem]

Its always been degrading to a girl , I personally hate deepthroghters , anal fantacies and words and sluts like that , these porno's excite us to do this to our loved ones ...... men want sex as dirty as possible when they are hard, lol they think that way :P but when they are done , they regret it ......

[toulouse]

"men want sex as dirty as possible when they are hard, lol they think that way :P but when they are done , they regret it ." thanks or that piece of info...i thought/ had a feeing, but I never heard a guy say that before... i am sure al men are different, but I am sure there are more like you tho yo mat get some angry responses from the ones in denial ^ ^

[mealltime]

I'm not a man, but I think the one's who feel bad after some dirty deed are the ones who did it to a girl they don't really like and had to convince/seduce into it. I think that whatever both parties agree with and ultimately get pleasurable from, is fine. Sex is natural, and dirty positions are not wrong and some body cavities are not holy, they are what they are. its not the act that degrades women, its the women that degrade themselves if they do it with someone that doesn't care about them

[gravygirl]

1. I can handle anal, but I'd never do it if he didn't want it. Still I don't think he's strange for wanting it or anything.

2. Oral seems really normal to me. I want to do it. When I've been single I've even thought "I want to suck his d***." I can't imagine why a guy would have a problem with this.

[clovisx]

You can stick to that if it is what you and your partner like. Personally, I enjoy vaginal sex as the most common kind of intercourse we have, but we do enjoy everything you mentioned above and more.

For me it's all about variety. If I came home and had baked chicken with rice every night, I would enjoy it but it would become routine and a little boring. You can only do so much to that dish to make it different because the basic ingredients are still the same. If, on the other hand, we picked up some steaks, or other kinds of meat and sides, I can have some different flavors and textures in my meal.

The same is true for sex. Sometime I like oral, anal, squirting, toys, etc... but vaginal sex is always there as a constant. If you do it right, no sex act should hurt. In almost every situation time, patience and lube will make it feel good for both of you.

[vvaseem]

As my common observation when you put in the ass , you don't think of putting back in the vagina , the ass is tight while the vagina gets lose with time , as many of the guys say ass is more fun than the vagina , so the tendency of f***ing the wrong whole goes strong for man ,,, that's again badddd lol

[clovisx]

I might have had different experiences than you but I've never had a woman with a "loose" vagina. I prefer vaginal sex to anal sex, but sometimes anal is fun. I never go from back to front in the same session though, I don't think that's what you were saying though. It all depends on what your partner and you are comfortable doing. If you don't like anal then don't do it. If you don't like it because you think it will be better than vaginal, that's probably the wrong reason to not do it.

[Gregs]

i like to keep it basic with a little crazy now and then. If you go crazy there is no limit to how far you will go because if you can't enjoy sex at the basic level it will be like crack and you'd just want it more and more until your all dressed in leather and wearing two strapons while your girl is riding you like a horse... don't ask bro...

[azicr]

i can do with the BJ eventhough yes technically it's not suppose to go in your mouth

but no to anal--i would not go there, that's just pushing it--so unatural--just be happy with proper sex.

--it''s gross too

[l-hedoniste]

Your. Sex. Is. Your. Own.

If you don't want anal, don't do it. If you don't want oral, don't do it. Leave the blowjobbing buttf*ckers for the rest of us. We'll take them, gratefully.

[dtaylor31906]

its your oppinion dude I personally love oral giving and receiving even though our genetails weren't made to go in mouth, I think the first person that tried it is my hero

so basically I'm saying diffrent strokes for diffrent folks but beware some gals love to do that stuff that you think is bad so you might feel uncomfortable having sex with them so you just got to find a girl willing to have lain old vanilla sex

[zagor]

Aw, what's a little poo on the wee wee...u probably don't want to do it in the 1-2 order you put above, if you ever want to kiss her again.

Seriously, tho, as long as you're both into it, I think its fine. I like an occasional BJ, and am ready and willing to go down on my girl. When I tried to slip it in the back door though, she gave it a good slap. Next Girlfriend maybe...