In sex, are you a giver or a taker? Why would you say so?

In sex, are you a giver or a taker? Why would you say so?
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I don't mean who takes the initiative, but rather... do you give more than you get, or vice versa?
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I don't mean who takes the initiative, but rather... do you give more than you get, or vice versaI don't mean who takes the initiative, but rather... do you give more than you get, or vice versa? ? I don't mean who takes the initiative, but rather... do you give more than you get, or vice versa?
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  • (when it comes to sex with men) I'm a giver, mainly because I just want to please. I want my body to be a source of pleasure for my partner. That partially comes from me being a masochist. I want him to TAKE the pleasure from my body in a sense. But by him getting pleasure, it gives me pleasure.

    (when it comes to sex with women) I'm a gentle giver. I want my partner to get pleasure anyways she wants it I want to give it to her. But I'd like to be in charge though. I like to be the one giving her pleasure as opposed to to her taking it, I want to give it to her.

  • I think with actual sex I'm kind of more of a taker than giver...Usually it's my boyfriend pounding away lol. But he says he doesn't mind. With oral I'm more of a giver, I give him a lot of blowjobs and do it for the sake of pleasing him, I never expect anything in return

  • Taker. Mainly because my man loves to give so much. He's usually the one moving around and deciding the positions. I take the initiative to go down on him, as I'm sure he feels it's disrespectful to push me down there. That's about it though.

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  • I'm a giver, I guess. I don't make demands. My girlfriend is willing to give me oral whenever I ask for it, but I don't ever ask for it, because I know she's not really a fan of it.

    But I still get it, every so often, she'll just go for it.

    Same goes for anal. It happens when she wants it. I don't ask for it (although, rimming her seems to put the idea into her head, so I can sometimes incite it that way).

    And I'm basically willing to do whatever it takes to get her off, so yeah... giver.

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  • I both give and take. I love being on the receiving end, but I feel quite selfish if all I do is take. It's a good thing I love giving too. So probably equal parts.

  • im a top

    hes a bottom

    sometimes it gets switched.

    :P

  • Why is it any of your business. There are too many creepy pervs on this site. I can't believe any females are dumb enough to answer these types of questions.

  • Depends. In fooling around, I'm a giver. I love pleasuring my man and making him feel good - it turns me on like crazy.

    In sex I'm a taker - I prefer him in charge, or on top, or deciding the positions.

    • The person in charge/taking the initiative is often the giver, as far as I'm concerned. The person who is taking care of the other is giving the most effort and often giving the most pleasure. I understood your question the first time, thanks.