Inexperienced girl just wondering about blowjobs?

Yes another blowjob question. I'm just wondering what all do you do? I have a crush on this guy and he's gone down on me and I feel bad I don't return the favour as in oral. Anyways, skipping along to what I ACTUALLY WANT answered, how do you do it? I thought you just kinda flicked your tongue over the head and licked or swirled your tongue around the head and on top of it. Then at the same time give a handjob or squeeze (gently of course) the balls. Would that be good or stupid? I doubt I could deepthroat, sometimes I gag when brushing my tongue ha ha. I really don't want to give a blowjob, but I'm just curious as to how it is done. I can't flick my tongue really fast like he can (I've tried on his nipple or on my finger and I just can't do ithe flicking fast). And what's up with this sucking thing? Like suck like you would to give a hickey or is it different? It just seems so complicated to give one, so many things to do at once.
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Oh, forgot to add, the guy I'm interested in now is uncircumcised. What to do with circumcised and uncircumcised?
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  • That's definitely part of it, but most of a blow job is taking the as much of it in your mouth as you can and moving your head up and down on his shaft.

    Women get fixated on the head of the penis. Don't worry about that. Spend more time stroking the shaft with your mouth. Remember, the act of sucking him off should mimic vaginal sex, so your mouth should be tight enough to hold him, but not sucking too hard, and definitely NO teeth.

    You should WANT to give a blow job when you do it. The blow job should be as much a turn-on for the woman as it is for the guy.

    • Definitely a combination of this and ask for help as you give it. Be confident in what you are doing but let him guide you the first couple of times so you know what he likes. If he has a large shaft and you cannot take him all in at once, be sure to tenderly stroke his shaft while you do it as that will help. If you have any technique questions, I tend to let my girl friends - platonic and relationship ones - know that they should check out Lisa Ann POV BJ videos.

    • Well see I thought maybe for me anyways, just stay to the head because I don't want to gag or whatever. And I worry about my teeth scraping him. so a bj is just putting as much in and move your head up and down? What about this sucking business? Do you legit suck, seems like it'd be hard with your mouth full? And what about stroking the shaft with my mouth? How do you mean? Like on the side lick or something or put it all in and move up and down? This seems so hard, I can't do it.

    • TKDKidd-stroke like with my head and focus my mouth on the head? I can't do it, mostly cause I'm nervous to and because it's so hard to imagine doing and all the different stuff you gotta do all at the same time :(

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  • 80% teasing 20% touching. Blow air on it after getting it wetnfrom your tongue. Put the tip in your mouth close your lips swirl tongue around it and suck your cheeks together in and out. Swallow a lot loudly. Your spit. Open and close mouth over it. Look him in the eyes. Make slurp sounds. Suck it Talk to him. Tell him how big it is. Tell him you want his cum. Hold his balls slighly squeeze them never let go. Ask him how he's doing. If you really want to knock it out of the park, suck his nipples and out a finger in his ass.

Most Helpful Girls

  • just go with the flow. i feel like most guys wouldn't mind teaching you if you told him you were a little inexperienced and you want to learn, in all honesty. don't use your teeth. make sure its really wet... dry blow jobs are gross. not super sloppy at first though. make eye contact.

  • definitely watch some p*rn. I've learned a lot from it haha

    • But they'll do crazy stuff. I've never done one before, they're super experienced ha ha. And I'm kinda shy when it comes to sexual stuff, I've never watched p*rn.

    • if you watch a few, you will get the big picture. you don't have to do all the crazy stuff they do!

    • But I don't want to see the kinky weird sh*t ha ha, just something super tame

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  • To me every thing you said you said sounds amazing

  • Practice on a Banana/Cucumber. :)