For what it's worth, I don't think anything is TOO fast if you are really connecting with someone.
But, if you're doing it because you are afraid he won't like you or something that's just a terrible idea. That being said, In my experience, oral sex (girl giving to guy) is a lot more awkward when you don't know someone than just having sex. And, I don't think that you should do one if you wouldn't be comfortable with the other.0 0 0 1I completely agree with everything you said, especially about the oral sex bit. It's so much more personal and you're all up in that person's business, so to speak.
Haha. It's wonderful with someone that you love, but it's a strange place to start a relationship from. I'm not at all board with prudish rules, but if you are going to connect with someone in the longrun it's hard to recover from an awkward start.
What about two people who met online, have talked a few months and have already seen each other naked on Skype, but are planning to have a real life date sometime? I'm not sure what applies in that case... which is the situation I'm in. haha.
Eh, it depends if the guy can remain detached and still view you objectively without letting his penis do the talking. If you put out early that's all a guy thinks about... the next chance he'll get at smashing that. You want to develop the emotional side of the relationship first before you give in otherwise he'll just see you as a f***.
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I gave my boyfriend a blowjob on our first date. I didn't plan on it, it just kinda happened in the heat of the moment... but I don't regret it, we are still together 3 months later and I've asked him about it and he said it didn't seem too fast or "slutty" to him like I thought it might
1 2 0 0i think it just depends on the situation and the particular people involved... if it feels right it feels right, and if it feels too fast it's probably too fast
1 1 0 3That is definitely moving too fast.
You shouldn't know what someones part looks like on the first date.1 2 0 2
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3 10Yea, don't do that.
0 3 0 1Too fast... 3rd base, 3rd date (AT LEAST)..
0 3 0 1If you have no self respect, by all means go for it. But hookers at least have the decency to charge.
2 0 0 1Way too fast.
0 0 0 1haha Well I mean that's not really fast, cause I wouldn't mine if a girl want to give oral on the first date, really cause if you like someone then you like them :)
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