Is anal sex dangerous?

So my boyfriend wants to do it to me really bad and I have thought about it but, I have always felt like my butt hole wasn't made for things to be going in and also does it make anal cancer an easy possibility?
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  • Yes to a degree deffinitly. Anal sex does increase the chance off developing colon cancer, anal sex will eventually lead to pink sock, anal leakage, infection from tearing off the inner walls off the rectum, E coli, hepatitis A, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, intestinal parasites, chlamydia infection, poliomyelitis, human papillomavirus (HPV), gonorrhea, Herpes simplex virus, conjunctivitis, prolapse.

    Here is an example of pink sock actually happening link

    Things like lube and having slow intercourse will slow down the rate this will happen but the rectal walls are surprisingly extremely weak and will eventually callapse, they are not designed for penetration

    Guys that like anal sex whether they admit it or not, have been brainwashed by too much p*rn, I find it disgusting about the whole taboo idea, I don't buy the "I like it because its taboo" its NOT TABOO anymore. It used to be but its became pretty normal now, monkey see, monkey do. ass to mouth is just somethingg new whatever p*rn shows guys will follow

    If you are careful though and use LOTS of lube, you can reduce the rate this will happen and deffinitly maike sure its slow, the rectum is very weak in this regard and can cause many future problems

  • Cancer? Lol. You can die from laughing, imagine that (laugh in sleep and suffocate). Just stating the diverse way you can hurt yourself/dying.

    General ideas: anal sex is an exotic part of sex, best done rarely. Like, if you have sex daily or couple of times a week, once or twice/month is safe. Clean yourself properly BEFORE you engage in it, some girls use enemas other laxatives. Yeah, I saw that one too. Anal sex WILL SUCK if the guy doesn't know what to do. He has to take it slow and careful with lots of lube. You also must be horny and relaxed enough for it to work, more than usual sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • there's no major danger having anal sex once in a while, of course I don't mean every day and not how it's done in p*rn. it's actually quite pleasurable if you prepare for it properly and can get past the pain.

    there exist get the same risks of disease and cancer with blow-jobs & excessively high number of partners. everything in moderation, I love my arse f***ed by my man but it took a long time to get there and I wasn't averse to trying tbh. you say it wasn't meant for that use so just don't do it if you don't want to. trying it isn't the same as practicing it til you get it right, it'll hurt like holy hell every time but if you're commited to getting it right, you can.

  • You can get viral infections like hpv, herpes in/around your rectum just as you can your vagina or mouth. Bacterial infections are spread through anal too. Also, AIDS is spread easier through anal sex because there is a much greater incidence of tearing and bleeding. It can also be profoundly painful for the receving partner if the penetrating partner doesn't know what they are doing/is overzealous. Negative to the point that the receiving partner resents the aggressor, especially if it wasn't their idea. It's somethingg to think about seriously.

    • I'm not saying don't ever do it -- just to exercise caution and be prepared if you do. What's with the thumbs down.

    • yeh like what's wrong with beingwell- informed and safe, giving thumbs-up for this because it's just straight and factual. if people are offended by it then they should just go do some research it's not so hard. I actually like anal but it's not for everyone and I can see what your message is saying. f*** it, none of us are here for anyone else's approval

  • You've heard of HPV right - the cervical cancer thing - well that's the same way cancer and anal sex is related, so it's not a huge worry in terms of trying it out. In fact it's not a huge worry as a more common practice as long as you're careful, clean, and gentle to start off.

    If you're not comfortable with the idea, then you're probably not going to be relaxed enough to fully enjoy it, and it won't be a great experience for you. I think it's one of those things, that if you're going to try it, you have to wholeheartedly commit to it.

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  • The rectal tissues are more sensitive and easier to cut. (as far as I know) it doesn't increase the risk of cancer. Although because of it being easy to cut, you could get many infections so I would recommend him to wear a condom if you guys decide to do that. Instead of just listening to people on this site though, I would suggest doing some actual research on the topic. Use google and find a good, reliable source that will tell you the risks of anal sex and how or if you can prevent them.

    • I agree with you. Condom is the most important thing!

  • only if you give head after, so its always head then anal. remember that or always be tainted with the nick name "s.hit breath", guys talk to you know.

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  • Guys are gonna tell you to do it and girls are going to tell you it sucks most of the time, but can get bearable. Some girls eventually even come to think its OK. It has the same risks of vaginal sex, but not pregnancy.

    • Some woman even come to beg for it. They even have orgasms through anal stimulation.