Is it bad if I don't get nipple 'erection'?

[Anonymous]

So yesterday my boyfriend and I were hooking up and he started kissing and/or sucking my nipple. well at least trying to I guess. at the time they weren't erect. and is that a sign that I wasn't turned on? I told him I was. and I was definitively excited. and it did feel good still but I was wondering if that is normal for them not to erect. plus its harder when there's nothing really to suck I guess :P

[ilovelegs]

Hmm well I think it's because girls get turned on not only by direct physical stimulation. They get turned on by emotional stimulation too and that has more control of her nips getting hard or her getting wet down there then just physical friction. Physical stimulation can get irritating in a hurry if the girl isn't right into it, but if she's been held close & kissed and loved and feeling secure with the guy she'd much more likely to respond to physical stimulation than when a guy almost goes right at and the girl is expected to get turned on right away. Think of the times you got turned on without hardly touching. Just talking because I bet during those times it'd not taken much for your nips to get hard. Guys certainly can get hard without any touching. lol! So if the climate isn't just right at the time between you and your guy and he went right at it too soon, maybe that's the reason. The mind has so much control over how we respond sexually at any given time. I'm sure what happened was completely normal and maybe next time don't concentrate so much on what being done to you, but more on how much you like being with him and how close you feel to each other. What happened definitely not a bad thing. If that happens again, just tell him to enjoy what he's doing and you do the same thing.

[John-B]

NO. It's not bad. I do feel/look to see if they are but if your into it then it's not a problem at all. I worry more about my own erection. So relax don't think about it again.

[grace86]

Sometimes my nips become erect and other times they don't. It has nothing to do with how turned on I am at all, it just depends on how my nipples are teased and sucked.

Some women just have very sensitive nipples which react by becoming erect and others have sensitive nipples that don't react physically.

[confused17yrold]

I don't think it matters cus me and my gir;friend do stuff a lot and she sometimes gets them and not others. I don't know I guess its a person thing like 1 then another