Is it bad that my boyfriend was to tape us having sex?

I'll admit that it sounds sexy and quite the turn on but I am terrified of the "what ifs". What if we break up? What if someone else gets a hold of it, etc? Am I paranoid or are these valid concerns?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Very valid to have these concerns. Prime example. My girlfriend and I made 2 sex tapes, because I'm in the army and she lived in a different state, so when she left from her visit she would have something to watch. Well, after making the tapes, and her going back home. I find out a month later, that she has cheated on me with 3 different guys, and robbed me of 2000$. So what did I do? I took our home movies, and put them on the internet and sent the links to all her friends and family.

    Moral of the story, you shouldn't have to worry about anything unless you truly, and deliberately ruin your bf's life. So don't cheat on him and steal from him and you should be good :)

  • I wouldn't even consider. My wife and me have talke over that issue before and we both are clearly against doing something like that. Even if we can trust each other there could still be a chance that somebody gets a hold of it in other means...

    I strongly suggest to not do it...

Most Helpful Girls

  • All great questions. You already know the answer, don't you? So, if you need a supportive answer, I'm there for you. Don't do it. When he asks you why not, tell him "because I don't want to." And if he really wants to watch you 2, he can look in a mirror.

  • You can do it.. I would suggest that you keep the tape.

    - If you're video taping off a phone, do it on yours.

  • It is fun and a hot sexy thing to do, but beware of what happens with the finished product.

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  • Too risky. It will be on the Internet one day.

  • Those are great, and important things to think about. I do not recommend letting him do that until you two are married, or are sure about your commitment. It's too risky if he is just your boyfriend. Don't do it now.

  • It's definitely not a good idea...

  • Don't do it unless you can erase the tapes right after you watch them.

  • Its a bad idea, But think about it with all the p*rn that is on the internet even if your amateur tape got out how many people would actually see it.

  • if you film it, you use your camera and keep the video.

  • i'd defo be careful about it because it'll always be there for blackmail purposes and you don't want that..

  • Its fun, but there are risks.

  • u shud allow him. most of us do it... because if you don't he will dump for the one who will

    • No man would dump you for not taping your sex -. - and the rest you don't have to consider, because that's the j*rks you don't wanna be with anyway... What means "most of us"? What is "us" referring to? Since around me nobody ever did so far I consider your "us" to be part of a certain intelligence level (not specifying...).

    • if you haven't done it ...it simply means your relationship lacks trust and passion.. lack of the mentioned means your relation is gonna die soon

  • They are valid concerns. Why would he want to tape that?.?