Is it a bad thing if a girl gets wet...

1) Why do guys like when a girl gets wet from just kissing or sucking dick? 2) Would this be considered a bad thing in any way? 3) Is this common or rare in a woman? *I just don't always understand the surprised look I get from guys.
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I'm not completely retarded.I know its natural for me to get aroused and my body to prep for more action. Its just the way guys act like its unusual or weird. I end up getting more self-conscious and won't admit how much I enjoy sex.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Honestly, I get wet when I'm not even turned on or with anyone else. It's just a natural thing for your body. When I am turned on, it is more, but I've never heard of a guy not liking that. Like everyone else said, I'm sure the guy's confidence would go down if you weren't wet because that probably means that he's not turning you on! He'd feel like he's doing something wrong. I've had guys tell me "Wow, you're so wet already!" They say it surprised but I think sometimes they just use it as a way of talking dirty to you.

    Maybe these guys aren't very experienced.

  • Ok sweety~ The reaction you are getting from guys has to do with the "wow" factor. Guys love to know that your are wet as shit and that they are arousing you in that way. DOnt ever feel ashamed or embarrassed...many women do not even get wet from stimulation so feel blessed that you can. It is a huge turn on so use it for what its there for and have fun~

  • I always get surprised looks from guys too! After we're done making out and beginning to start something more sexual they're always like "wow, you're so wet already!" They don't seem to be grossed out or anything I just don't get why they always look so shocked lol.

    • To me its like a wonderful surprise then again I'm kinda expecting them to be wet cause if they weren't then I would think I wasn't doing something right lol I'm not sure how to explain it

Most Helpful Guys

  • 1) It's just gratifying to know your partner is just as or more turned on as you are. Definitely a turn on.

    2) No not at all, I would consider it a compliment I guess? =)

    3) I don't know about women getting wet from sucking a man off, but in my experience women that go down A) Know what they're doing, and B) Do get aroused by giving oral and so yes do get wet. I don't always know though because there's usually a lot of foreplay, so I would have to assume it is fairly common whether the guy knows it or not ;)

  • Why on earth would that be a bad thing. I love it when a girl gets wet just from kissing me or blowing me. It means I am turning her on big time. I don't know why they keep giving you funny looks, its totally normal.

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  • Not wrong, uncommon.

    Kind of fun, actually. I knew a woman who could climax if you kissed her exactly right.

  • its a huge TURN on for a guy to know his girls p**** got soaked from sucking him off.really an ego boost! not bad at all! very common, but depends on the woman

  • Guys dig it. It means that they are turning you on. It's like your own built-in lube.

    And all women get wet, some more than others though.

  • no. you've had the appetzers, and now your body's ready for the main cousre

  • 1) its just sexy lol

    2) I guess you could find some way. lol

    3) I don't know about every woman in the world :P, but I'm not sure how much it matters :)

  • uh girls are supposed to get wet and all girls do get wet. it lubricates the vagina for sex .so yea all guys should like it I haven't heard anyone complain about it before. I know I like it

  • i use to have a problem with being too wet,

    i hated it and found it

    quite embarrassing.

    i didn't realize guys liked that so much,

    and the last time I was with a guy, we went for so long, I actually went dry.

    i was like WTF,

    but ice usually helps ;)

    and for some reason he always wants to push it in when he starts to thrust.

  • i don't know. nope not a bad thing. not sure

  • Idk how it'd b a bad thing, and I guess guys like it because they like to know that there girl's turned on by them. It might be bad if you and your man are trying to have a romantic and non-sexual moment. Kinda like if your guy gets a boner while you're trying to be romantic.

  • A girl getting wet is like a guy getting a hard-on, it's just positive affirmation that things are moving in the right direction. I'd be more worried if you were dry. That would send me racing to this site asking why? Perhaps it's time to find a smarter guy!