Is it bad to be a virgin when I'm a senior in high school?

Does the fact that I haven't had sex make me a loser? Its not like I don't want to have sex...I'm practically craving it. But I just can't get it to happen. What is a way for me to get girls to want to have sex with me?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Average age to lose virginity is 17 world wide, so you're right on par right now - definitely not too old.

    That said, I lost my virginity when I was 16 to someone I wasn't in a relationship with or had any deep connection with. There are tons of ways to up your chances, but having sex with a girl you are really into and having sex just to have sex are like night and day... if I could go back and do it over I'd wait until it was something meaningful. I guess what I'm trying to say is don't be too hasty. If someone gives you sh*t about being a virgin then they're an idiot.

  • You'd be surprised as to how many people lie about having sex at that age. The only thing anybody will really be able to tell you is when it's your time, it'll happen.

    There is no key phrase or method to getting a girl to sleep with you. Just take you're time.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'd rather know you're a virgin than someone who's slept with a million different girls. Besides, being a virgin is admirable! Wait until you're ready and you've got someone you love to do it with. It'll be much more meaningful and fun that way.

  • Sexual confidence. Learn to seduce by just using your eyes and body language and don't give the person too much attention. Don't text and call her too much. This works for girls too.

  • Most girls would rather date a virgin rather than a guy who sleeps around =P

    My boyfriend is one =)

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  • Being a virgin is a GREAT thing! You are NOT a loser -- you are doing a great thing by waiting. Don't feel ashamed.

    • "waiting" is not the right word, more like "failing"

    • Oh, well if you don't want to wait and DO want to have sex now, then do it. In your question above you ask for advice on how to get girls to want to have sex with you. Well, first you have to develop a relationship with them, dating, etc.. until it gets deeper and they say they want to have sex. Just watch a movie together in the dark and you two will do it after no time, hahah! :) Hope that helped!

  • I'd be more likely to date you if I knew you were a virgin and not going around doing everyone, ya know?

  • Being a virgin before in senior school means nothing bad or awkward,i shouldn't bother you nd sex isn't something gotta luk up 2..there many other things but if you want,then you gonna be social,be open 2 girls around,compliment on them,u knw how beautiful the luk,maybe jokingly,teasing also helps..

  • I agree with kristiness I believe that being a virgin is sexy it would seriously put me off a guy if I knew he'd had several sexual partners.

    Keep your virginity and treasure it babe save it for someone special! <3

  • no no no no no

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    ur gonna regret it so badly when you get older and your getting ready to have a family.

    only man whores and sluts have sex b4 marriage trust me you WILLLLL regret it

    • I respect what your saying but I just want to have sex.

    • Say what? I don't know anyone who's waiting for marriage.. So you're calling the majority of people sluts and man whores?

  • i got laid last night by a female I barely knew and during I was thinking to myself why the f*** am I doing this I don't love I don't believe I can and I truly am getting minimal pleasure from this. trust me little man you'll like if you wait

  • I WOULD say don't feel bad, everybody has his/her time; Wait for someone special and all...

    But I honestly hate myself for being a virgin still, so choose what feels best for you. I don't recommend the latter.