Is it bad to come just by rubbing my penis agianst mattress or pillow?

[Anonymous]

most of the time when I masturbate I don't touch my penis with my hand. I just rub it against the pillow or mattress. sometimes I just hold the pillow tight with both the hands and think it to be a girl, her face lips and the corner or it to be boobs. I just rub and rub until I come and most of the times I'm not fully erect like only 25% erect and I push myself very hard so I could come as soon as possible. may be just a minute and I come. is it bad for my sexual health in the long run?

[kheserthorpe]

Maybe and yes.

for one thing, I have read a number if things with guys who masturbate using this technique who find it hard to get off during sex. I have no idea if that's common or uncommon or bullsh*t, bt there are claims. I guess the type of stimulation you get doing it is very different from sex and you may be training yourself to expect a sensation you won't get.

As for the using very hard pressure and cumming before you're even hard, yes, this is a bad idea. Again you are training your body to respond that way.

Buy some lube and try masturbating in a more conventional way. If you find that difficult, I would suggest you STOP using your current technique until you have adapted.

Practice getting hard and try to get used to 10-15 minutes of stimulation with a lubricated hand before you cum.

[Anonymous]

No, a pillow is nice and soft. When I younger in my teens I had a large body pillow and I cut a small hole in it towards the bottom and would stick my penis in the cotton and thrust into it and pretend it was a girl. I was rarely 100% erect either. I have suffered no problems from it. My sex life is just fine all these years later.

When you say you rub your penis against a mattress I'm assuming you mean while lying down on your stomach? That would be rather uncomfortable for me. But everyone is different.

[Asker]

I my lying on my stomach just like a missionary position.

[Opinion Owner]

As long as it doesn't hurt then I doubt its bad for your sexual health.

[Anonymous]

I don't think its bad for your health or anything like that. Its a bit odd that you use a pillow tho and not just your hand. But whatever works I guess.

[Asker]

I use hand to grab the pillow tight as I do while having sex with a girl assuming the pillow to be a girl.

[Opinion Owner]

The pillow is the girl? Wow I feel very bad for any girl that has sex with you because she is now a pillow.

[Lommelun]

Whatever floats your boat mate.

As long as you don't mind the stains, nothing bad will come of that.

[katiesmuff]

Can't say it is ever bad to cum.! LOL

[Asker]

yes but the problem is I just press myself so hard as if I m in a hurry to come. so I come very soon. Like in a minute

[katiesmuff]

Oh Well!

[cavmanier]

I don't see how it would be bad for your sexual health, sounds normal.

[Asker]

no just the part that I m always in a hurry to come and that most of the time I don't even wait to get fully erect until I come.

[cavmanier]

I don't think it's anything to worry about. If you're concerned you can focus on being fully hard and lasting longer.

[Anonymous]

It's not bad at all. After all, you're just doing something different from the rest of us