Is it because I'm a virgin or is he too rough/big?

Okay so I lost my virginity to my boyfriend last month. Before then I hardly masurbated, and I never put anything up there besides tampons, which was rare considering I prefer pads. But so far we've had sex maybe 6 times and every time it hurts. I can't tell if its because I'm too tight down there, or if he's too rough/ big, or if I don't get stretched enough before he enters? because he's bigger than avarage and is rough at times. A girls opinion would be greatly appreciated! :)))
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  • I think its a combination of both. It takes time for a girl to get used to having sex. For me, it hurt for a good 2 months but to be honest, having sex with someone who is big will hurt regardless until you get used to him. A guy who is big should know how to work with a girl to make it easier for her and maybe he isn't being gentle enough. He has to take him time and you need to be totally relaxed for it to be enjoyable. Just give it some time and be open with him about how you feel. Tell him that it hurts so he won't be so rough. Communication is very important and don't be shy to tell him how you feel cause he may not know what is going on.

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  • Even once your hymen breaks your vagina isn't wider the opening around it is just bigger because the hymen is really on the opening not inside the vagina. So you probably are tight AND it's probably his size combined. Unless you are constantly f***ing many different guys like nonstop you probably won't be too stretched out until you have kids...the vagina is very flexible and goes back to normal size after sex

    • Okay thanks that makes sense :)

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