Is being a virgin somewhat unattractive?

I'm 16, and I'm still a virgin, is it ever unattractive? Or do you guys rather go for the girl who isn't? thanks!
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I never thought of it as something more attractive, but opposite..So Thanks!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • At 16 I'd hope you were still a virgin because if you weren't I think you were not only pretty easy but maybe even a slut. You need to start thinking of virginity as a value thing... something good and attractive, not something unattractive something to be ashamed of. Once young girls lose their virginity's they might as well just start sleeping around because they've already lost the most important thing they could have ever given their husband or the man they truly love and want to spend their life with. That doesn't mean that a girl that's lost her to a guy she thought she really liked and then broke up isn't just as good, but I'm saying that young girls need to start valuing their virginity and not be so free to give it away for nothing. It's something to save for the person you truly love. You will NEVER get credit for losing yours. I must rather go with the girl who is!

    • Whoever down rated you is a moron. You're exactly right, and I totally agree.

    • Thanks faberfan. You're a stand up guy and the type of guy a girl should be so proud to have by her side.

  • still? your only 16, I'd rather be with a girl that's 16 and a virgin than a 16 that's slept with 50 guys, there's nothin wrong with bein a virgin at 16

Most Helpful Girls

  • It'd be unattractive to someone who just wants sex but for someone who is interested in a long term relationship and actually deserves your time then you being a virgin would be very attractive. Why would any guy wanna date someone who sleeps around? (not saying that people who aren't virgins sleep around but a lot do).

  • I don't know how a guy thinks, but I can tell you that being a virgin makes me feel way more attractive than if I slept around. It makes me feel so much more valuable! With that being said, I would think that my self-confidence would make me appear much more attractive.

  • I'm 16 as well, &a virgin

    and guys have told me that if they are serious about a girl

    ...they liked girls who are virgin more because they like to know that the girls values and respects her body, and doesn't just give it out to any guy.

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  • There is no rush not to be a virgin. At your age I think that a virgin is more attractive. Not like the girls who are giving it up to anyone. Wait until you are in love & be sure that you are in love before you think about giving it up.

  • it is somethinf more attractive for ur age, really lol

  • I'm the same age and I'm still one too. I would rather lose mine to someone that is also a virgin.

  • I think you should feel very proud of being a virgin.Not many girls can say that anymore even at the age of 16. If a guy thinks that unattractive,then you're looking at the wrong guy.

  • No. Don't ever think that again. A lot of girls would have envy towards you, especially if they lost theirs when they were young and to the "wrong" person.

  • Well I'm 22 and I'm still a virgin. not to say that I didn't have my chances I did and in fact there was one guy in specific I wanted to give it to but my gut feeling told me something wasn't right.

    so you are 16 don't rush it. ...and take your time to find someone you are and at the same time care for u... and in which you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with.