Girls, Is fingering supposed to feel good?

I can't really feel any mindblowing pleasure from fingering myself even though some women in sex tapes and porn tend to scream when they are fingered. It just feels like something going in and out. And I have not had sex yet. Is this normal? Does that mean that I won't enjoy being penetrated by a penis?
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  • Try a marker. Not a crayola one or anything but a small thing one. Don't be scared to lift your legs and stuff. Get into it. For me I can't watch porn, it make me wet but I just can't cum with it. I have to watch stuff that is being done just for me. Like watching a guy jerk off for some reason makes me cum like crazy!! So try a sharpie. That's what I use. Don't be scared to go deep. Trust me. Have a towel underneath you though.

  • You have to find your gspot, it's usually located 1-2 inches inside on the "wall" closest to your pelvis. Take some time and explore your body, you'll find it eventually and then getting fingered is an absolute dream. It definitely feels better when a guy does it though, they can do it from a better angle, and they have thicker, meatier fingers so that makes it feel better too.

    • That's what everyone has said and I've tried so many times, however I can't feel anything out of it. I'm starting to believe that I was born without a g-spot.

    • Don't worry about, just keep trying. It actually took me years of masturbating to even find mine. I thought I just didn't have one too, but everyone has one and once you find it, you'll know for sure.

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  • Yeah it feels good, personally feels better when someone else is.

  • Ohhh yes!!! For me its a must during fore play i would expect the guy to finger me and to slightly vibrate his fingers inside without being hardcore and i could quite easily come from that

  • You supposed to finger your clitoris. In out of the vagina doesn't do much. In fact only about 15% of women reach climax through vaginally sex.

    • Then why do women like to be penetrated so much? I don't get it... Fingering the clit at the same time kind of makes it difficult and takes away the fun out of it.

    • You are a guy

    • Wtf? lol I'm a female. don't you see the caption?

  • Fingerings does feel great bit it totally depends on who's doing it.

  • Yeah, fingering is kind of overrated.
    Next time, use your middle finger and try hooking it toward your navel. Don't thrust it in and out, just rub the end of your finger against the flat, spongey area there. That's your g-spot.

    • I have read every description of the g-spot online and still can't feel anything :(

    • You probably already have. It's not super obvious, and the pleasure that you feel from stimulating it isn't nearly as intense as your clit. I'd recommend thrusting inward with the tip of your finger, as I mentioned, and rubbing yoru clit simultaneously. It can make for a very powerful orgasm.

  • i don't like it when i do it because it feels too tender and it's scary. i like it when others do it. a penis this isn't too thick is the best. it feels much better than a finger.

  • same same same , this is totally me

  • Fingering doesn't do much for me either.

  • First, the porn is fake. You can't believe anything you see in porn. It's all a show. Second, it does feel really good to me but I've never orgasmed from it. I can't do it myself. It doesn't feel as good when I do it, but my boyfriend does it really well. The trick is to not go in and out, but to angle the finger upwards. The G spot is on the upper wall of the vagina, and massaging that can feel great. Like I said, I can't do it myself. I'm not sure why. But my boyfriend hits it everytime.

    • I've tried and still don't feel anything.

    • Like I said, I can't do it to myself. It doesn't feel good when I do it. My boyfriend can do it and it feels great. Maybe one day in the future, your partner will be able to do it for you.

  • Yea its normal but that doesn't mean you won't enjoy sex im not a virgin and it feels amazing but i hate fingering for that fact people are different so not everyone is the same and honey its porn they fake most of it

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